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Seeing a data on the Internet, this year netizens also voted for the top ten regrets of life.
These include: not getting into the university of their choice, regretting entering marriage too early, wanting to raise children and not waiting for them, choosing the wrong major to enter the wrong industry, and ignoring health.
And: wasting young time, failing to buy a home, missing the best time to buy a house, family children are entangled in work, and missing out on campaigns and promotion opportunities.
People are always saying, "If only I had been. "But, actually, if you could really turn back the clock, what could you change?"
1. We always have regrets
There is an episode in "The Tale of Wulin" where Qiu Yueyue is admired, and everyone has another hope, if they hadn't done it in the first place, wouldn't it have been better.
However, when all this really came true, Tong Xiangyu was not happy because of Mo Xiaobao's existence; Bai Zhantang could only watch Tong Xiangyu leave him.
Guo Furong became a heroine, but was defeated at the hands of Li Xiulian; Lu Xiucai's shop was forced to close; Li Xiulian was dismissed from her post and investigated because of her rampaging in the township.
They got the beginning they wanted in the setting of the story, but they still didn't get the ending they wanted.
In fact, our life is like this, when you have it, you will never cherish it, you will only enjoy and squander everything you have.
But when you lose it, and you have even returned to heaven and lack of skills, you suddenly understand that I once had everything so beautiful, but I never cherished it.
In life, there is no way to live without regrets at all. Because every stretch of road, there are always a few gravel and deep pits waiting for you.
2. I also want to say, what a pity
I once read a sentence: "If you woke up and found that you were still in the class of your sophomore year of high school, and all this you are experiencing now is a dream, would you be happy or sad?" ”
The reply that a friend once gave will be sad. Because, in her opinion, everything she is experiencing now, whether good or bad, is the result of her own choices.
You feel like you've chosen the wrong major and entered the wrong industry, and you're looking at someone else's pay slip. But I never thought that others may be under pressure that you can't bear.
We have actually seen a lot of news, how many acute sudden deaths caused by work, those are not just data, but also a living life.
Therefore, it is good to work or life. People show you only the parts they want you to see, and there's more you don't.
Since you chose this major in the first place, it is a kind of responsibility for your own efforts over the years.
If you do find out one day that this job or profession is not for you, you still have the opportunity to never, but you have to pay more costs and costs than others.
However, the path you want to take, you have to complete on your knees. Otherwise, one day in the future, you will not be able to walk, and you will complain to yourself in your heart: "I blame you, let me regret it even more." ”
3. Heaven, there will always be light
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Sometimes, we will always subconsciously feel that what we must not lose in our lives. But when you lose, you really can't live?
No, you will still live. No matter how sad you are, the sun will still rise the next day, and people will work and live as usual.
So, don't always let regrets get in your way, don't always get stuck in the prison you've built for yourself, you always have to come out.
You look up at the sky, there's the sun, there's the clouds, there's the stars, there's the moon. You look down at yourself, there is tomorrow, there is reluctance, there is expectation, this is your life.
Anything we go through in life is just a process. They teach us to love, they teach us to hate, they teach us how to live well.
But, whoever it is, always has to leave. No matter how much you care and love a thing or a person. He always has to have his own home.
And you, and there are many more tomorrows, and after waving goodbye to them, turn your head, the road in front of you, you have to continue to walk slowly.
4. What should be put down, always be put down
A sentence commented by netizens is very reasonable: "The most regrettable thing is never to not cherish the present, but to know that it is obsession, and still refuse to let go of the past." ”
Life is the train, it will always go forward. Whether you like it or not, what you lose is what you have lost.
You should understand that you will not have everything, and likewise, you will not have nothing. Half-heartedness is enough for everything.
And the rest, instead of using those precious presents to reminisce about the regretful past, it is better to let tomorrow no longer have regrets.
After all, you and I are only in this life.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.