In The Tongfu Inn, everyone has their own dreams. Xiao Guo dreams of being a heroine, Lao Bai dreams of being a painter (or possibly a doctor), Xiu Cai dreams of becoming an official in the DPRK, and dreams of getting ahead of the crowd (whether it is being a head catcher or opening a restaurant). But the only treasurer, she seems to have no dreams, at least in terms of career, she has no dreams and does not need dreams. From the famous lady to the lady in charge, Tong Xiangyu's life trajectory originally did not have the option of running an inn.
One
Perhaps for Tong Xiangyu, life is her career. Life uses the words "ideal" and "dream" to be too grand, and it may be more accurate to use "hope" to express it.
When Tong Xiangyu was a child, her greatest hope in life was the new Dong'an sugar man that her father promised before his business trip. However, her father forgot every time, and little Tong Xiangyu looked forward to it, and waited for three years before he arrived. But when she really tasted the candy man sent by her father, Tong Xiangyu suddenly felt that she had no hope, the next time her father went on a business trip, what else could she expect?
Two
Therefore, when she grew up to be a young girl in the pavilion, Tong Xiangyu looked forward to beautiful clothes, and then when the love Dou first opened, Tong Xiangyu, who was already a big girl, began to look forward to the dowry and hope for freedom, and every hope was fulfilled, but the long-awaited love was delayed.
In the arranged marriage of the parents, the Qianjin of the Longmen Dart Bureau and the young leader of the Hengshan Sect can be described as a door-to-door match, whether in the eyes of outsiders or in the eyes of Tong Xiangyu himself, it is a marriage full of happiness. Originally, in this enviable marriage, Tong Xiangyu was looking forward to freedom and love, but on the way to marry, she received bad news: her fiancé died unexpectedly, and she became a widow!
Before the marriage was married, Tong Xiangyu became a widow, and this matter was a thunderbolt on any woman. There is no love, but Tong Xiangyu has gained her freedom, which may be the reason why she did not follow her father back to Hanzhong. Tong Xiangyu is a very assertive woman, as can be seen from this end.
Three
Life seems to have entered a dead end, and Tong Xiangyu should no longer have any hope. Unexpectedly, the life of Feng Huilu once again gave Tong Xiangyu new hope, because he met Lao Bai at the Tongfu Inn. It's just the bitterness of love, Tong Xiangyu still has a full taste, but compared with the life without hope, what is the pain of this female chasing man's love?
It is in the ardent expectation of love that Tong Xiangyu in life does not have the decadence of a widow, but always exudes a girlish cuteness, although when encountering difficulties, it is inevitable to chant "Should you marry at the beginning...".
Finally, after experiencing several times of life and death, as well as more than two years of getting along day and night, in episode 44, Tong Xiangyu finally harvested true love on the verge of death, and Lao Bai confessed to her affectionately: I like you, the thief likes ~
Four
The good times did not last long, Tong Xiangyu, who had just been shot by Cupid's arrow, couldn't help but be confused when talking to Xiao Guo on the roof: looking forward to the candy man's clothes, looking forward to the dowry, hoping for the dowry and looking forward to freedom, hoping for freedom and looking forward to love. Love is coming, next, what to expect?
When the long-awaited beauty suddenly comes, happiness often gives people a sense of sadness after being overwhelmed. Just like many high school students finish the college entrance examination, but find that they are at a loss. After Tong Xiangyu got what he wanted in love, he fell into this kind of unspeakable sorrow.
Schopenhauer said that life is a lump of desire, when desire is not satisfied, it is painful, when desire is satisfied, it is boring, and life is like a pendulum that oscillates between pain and boredom.
Five
The "desire" here can also be replaced by "goal", "hope", "hope" and the like, and most of us are never in these shackles.
These desires are transformed into "wealth freedom", "entering a big factory", "entering a prestigious school", "saving enough for a down payment"... These hopes support the lives of countless people to crawl forward, but when the wish is truly achieved, will there be the same feelings as Tong Xiangyu?
Ma Yun said that the happiest time was when he just graduated from college and received a salary of ninety-one yuan a month; Zhang Chaoyang suffered from depression after he became famous, "I really have everything, but I am so miserable."
Although the "pain" of these Internet giants is not understood by the public, perhaps from another point of view, they started hard from a small start-up, the business sea floated and worked hard for more than ten years, the company finally successfully listed as an industry leader, and they themselves became billionaires, attracting worldwide attention. But what's next?
Make more money? Sitting on the mountain and eating empty, they can't spend so much money in their lifetime. Become the number one in the industry? Their market share has gone it alone (at least in some years). Simply pursue your own interests, write books and travel? As high-level intellectuals, they are not willing to chase the sunset red with uncle and aunt so early.
Perhaps the plutocrats' suffering is real, not a "Versailles" joke.
In the same way, such suffering is certainly not exclusive to billionaires, and we ordinary people may indulge in it all the time.
Life is sometimes so complicated that it is painful to not get and to get. Perhaps, a person who strives for his goal until the year of the flower armor and then gets what he wants may be the best choice, because at this time of success, he can directly enjoy his old age, saving too many troubles.
Of course, love is not among them.
PS: Due to various factors, this public account will be in a semi-stop state, may be a year a change, may be a few months a change, may also be a few weeks a more ~ Buddhist system update, but also please pay attention to the Buddhist system, otherwise there is still a little bit of guilt ~ ~ (Statement here, I can rest assured that the pigeon in the future!) ）