Good afternoon, here is Lao Yu.
Some time ago, at the premiere of the movie "Love Myth", Ni Hongjie generously introduced her son to the audience, shouted his name, and said, "You are the most handsome."
Hearing Ni Hongjie's shout, everyone in the audience was shocked.
Does she have a son? When did she get married?
Later, in an interview with GQ, I came to the conclusion that "divorced, have children, and are in love".
As Gloria, who she played in the movie, said the line" "A woman has not lived for herself, and this life is incomplete." ”
When most people's impression of Ni Hongjie was still stuck in "The Legend of Wulin", she once again gained attention after 17 years of silence.
This time, Ni Hongjie is free and free of style.
She had children in secret marriage
Until the age of 21, because her parents were young people, Ni Hongjie had been living in her aunt's house.
My aunt has always treated her very well, "They never asked me to do anything, but I myself will feel that I still have to be sensible under the fence."
So she has been very sensible since she was a child, and even mixed with some humble flattery.
Before the meal, she will take the initiative to go to the kitchen to find work, peel beans and cut screws with adults;
Even if the delicious food on the dinner table is delicious, she can't help but clip more, because she thinks that she will not be able to bring food to her aunt when she goes to work.
Even in the cold and humid winter of Shanghai, she will not sleep in bed, and adults will get up early and she will follow.
What she wants to do is to be sensible and obedient, so that her presence does not bring trouble to anyone.
And these sensitivities that she has been paying attention to since childhood, she has never mentioned it to her family, Ni Hongjie always feels that in that era when materials are not rich, she can stay in Shanghai to study and have her own small bedroom, which is already lucky enough.
But the long-term separation from her parents as a child, the lack of security has always been what she craves most.
So at the age of 21, she married her boyfriend who was 7 years older than herself, in order to have a free and home of her own.
That year, after the uncle who lived with his aunt was drunk, he threw up the wine and frantically wanted to occupy Ni Hongjie's room, and threw the plate like crazy, and Ni Hongjie's stomach had an extra blood hole...
After a farce subsided, the boyfriend temporarily placed her in the corner under the stairs of his house. Even if the space was cramped, it gave her a full sense of security. That is, after this incident occurred, Ni Hongjie decided to marry her boyfriend.
The sweetness of marriage exists, but the problem is gradually exposed.
After marriage, her husband wanted her to return to the family, and she agreed. Her husband wanted to do a shipping business, and Ni Hongjie sold the money she had saved from acting to her husband as start-up funds along with the house, so that he could develop his career with peace of mind.
These efforts are exchanged for endless borrowings and bottomless pits.
In 2009, she gave birth to a son, and the arrival of the child did not wake up her husband, and even began to gamble money.
The sweetness at the beginning was only a quarrel and debt, and finally ended in divorce.
When the property was finally liquidated, her husband owed tens of millions of dollars, and Ni Hongjie needed to share this debt with him, and the accounts, houses and cars were frozen, and even on the list of untrustworthy people.
Even so, Ni Hongjie was relieved, "At least you can start a new life." ”
Pack up the past and start over
After the divorce, Ni Hongjie's life is definitely not easy, because she has to make up for the big hole in the money, and she needs to make money for filming.
In the early years, the well-known advertising stars and Zhu Wushuang's aura were far away from her.
There is also a road that 30+ middle-aged actresses can't play girls and can only be picked by the market.
She was like most of the ordinary people, temporarily stuck in a state of inaction, but she had not yet been crushed.
"First of all, you have to accept in your heart that at this age, this play is not based on you, it revolves around you, but you can still play the role well. In a play, not only the heroine has an aura. Don't get old and complain. ”
She can be the mother of Lang Dang in "Over spring", the poor mother who was abused by domestic violence in "Skyscraper", and the villain Long Wanshi in "Niangdao".
That is, the good reputation accumulated by these supporting roles and the polishing of various roles, she seized the opportunity to star in "Love Myth", and once again appeared in front of the public with good reputation and high attention.
The late-maturing life is also a transparent life
In the early years, everyone had seen the advertisements of "Duo Er Capsule" and "Tingmei Underwear", and Ni Hongjie, who had filmed these two advertisements, was already a little famous.
But it was a long time later that she mentioned in an interview that she was tricked into shooting the underwear commercial that year.
Before the shooting, she was told that it was health care underwear, and Ni Hongjie thought it was corrective underwear, and at first she wore a T-shirt inside. In the end, because I couldn't afford to pay liquidated damages, I could only finish the auction with my scalp.
And underwear advertising is a "shame" in the eyes of traditional conservative parents. One day the family was having dinner happily, the TV suddenly began to play underwear advertisements, the whole family was silent, no one spoke, only through eating to avoid, until the end of the advertisement, everyone seemed to be relieved.
Her parents never mentioned the advertisement to her again, and when nothing had happened, this avoidant approach became Ni Hongjie's psychological burden, and she did not dare to speak out until many years later.
Life went up and down, but fortunately Ni Hongjie came out with a tenacity.
The failed marriage did not make her lose the ability to love, she blew herself up that her current boyfriend is also engaged in performance-related, from the topic of "cats" began to become familiar, and is now in a stable state of love.
In the past, she longed to seek security in love, but now Ni Hongjie has found a truly down-to-earth and happy lover.
Ni Hongjie's life is really similar to Zhu Wushuang in "The Legend of Wulin", who has always lacked love and has always longed for love. After experiencing failure in this state, I finally understood what solid happiness is and finally found it.
"Now I am better every day than yesterday!" In fact, I am very grateful for all this, otherwise the days may have been reversed. ”
Because of the softness and kindness in her heart, after a circle in reality, she becomes gentle and powerful when she gets out of the shackles, so when she receives attention again, it is more of a kind of openness and relaxation, opening herself to love and happiness.