No matter how good our own conditions are, when we meet people we like, we will still unconsciously lower ourselves or lower ourselves to dust, serious and provocative.
Just flirting with a woman is a technical job, to master the skill, women are easy to be plucked.
Many men use the wrong method when they pick up people they like, and they are eager to step into place, and too much force will scare women and make people retreat.
In "Love Myth", Lao Bai likes Miss Li, played by Ma Yili, and in the process of pursuing her, she keeps a distance. When he asked Miss Li to move to his house to avoid being scolded by his mother, Miss Li directly refused. After Lao Bai lost Miss Li's brand-name shoes, she wanted to pay her, and Miss Li wanted to avoid too much entanglement between the two people, directly saying that it was a treasure, worthless, and then avoiding meeting.
Lao Bai couldn't understand why Miss Li didn't accept her enthusiasm, but alienated him?
It wasn't until the shoemaker told him that his actions had frightened Miss Lee that he realized he had done something wrong.
Pushkin said: "The more cold you are to a woman, the more you can get her attention." ”
Flirting with the woman, excessive enthusiasm to scare her easy to gain more than worth the loss, appropriately cold to the woman, but will increase their own charm index, so that women are attracted.
Flirt with a woman, there are three moments not to contact her, she will be more attentive to you.
After the woman knows your intentions, still in the moment of hesitation, do not contact her.
After the ambiguity between two people is pointed out, the man will make it clear that he likes through confession, and if the woman does not agree immediately, it means that she still has some concerns in her heart.
Many men think that at this time, they should take advantage of the victory to chase, pay more enthusiasm, and always contact women in order to let her see her own intentions.
In fact, when a woman is hesitant to be with you, there is really no need to contact her at all times, but should give her time to think clearly, and the choice of not being swayed by you is the real choice in her heart.
In "Love Myth", after Lao Bai's "confession" was rejected, he was woken up by the shoemaker, and then he got along with Miss Li with a normal heart, did not give her pressure, and always tried to help her in life.
At this time, the non-contact is not excessive contact, and the answer is not asked.
Because excessive enthusiasm and chasing answers can make women feel stressed, feel disrespected, instinctively go into a defensive position, and feel that men are annoyed, they will flee to safety.
If the man gives her time to think about it and respect her right to choose, then she thinks that the man loves her enough, she will make a choice quickly, but she is afraid of missing it, and she is more attentive to the man.
When a woman says she's tired and wants to rest, don't contact her.
When people are in a bad mood and don't want to talk, some people will think about being alone or talking to friends at this time, but they don't like to talk to people they don't know well.
Being picked up by a man who likes herself, women will clearly say that they are tired and want to rest, but they do not want to chat with men, and want to be quiet, but they use a more euphemistic excuse.
However, some men do not have the eyesight to see, and still want to find a topic to continue to chat with women, which will cause women to resent and feel that men are not polite.
If the woman is in a bad mood, easy to have negative emotions, and does not want to tell the man, it means that the relationship is not yet familiar enough to be able to communicate with each other, she is not rare in men's persuasion, and men's entanglement will only make her feel worse.
In times of bad mood, a smart woman doesn't talk or make any decisions, indicating that if you're tired and want to rest, it's very unwise for a man to contact her again.
Women say tired and want to rest, not to ask for men's opinions, she is just drawing lines, wanting to circle a private space, not to be disturbed, men should politely listen to her words, do not contact her for the time being.
Don't contact a woman after explicit rejection.
Some women will clearly refuse when they know the man's intentions, saying that two people are not suitable, and bless men to find their sweethearts as soon as possible.
Rejection is very crisp, do not drag mud and water, but some men because they like and are not willing to give up, want to continue to contact, they retreat to the second to propose two people to be friends.
However, from the beginning of men proposing to be friends, they have planted a "heart anchor" in women's hearts, and the relationship between them is defined as friends, and it will be more difficult to pursue her again.
After being explicitly rejected by a woman you like, the man will be passive in the relationship between the two people, which is very detrimental to the development of the relationship.
Men who continue to contact her may be treated as "spare tires" or neglected people.
The woman explicitly rejects the possibility of two people, the man's connection will be seen as a nuisance by her, she may not care about one more person being good to her, but the person she does not like, can not really fall in love with, and will not consider the relationship between two people until there is a better choice.
A man's low-profile payment will only make women feel that their choice is right, because the relationship is out of balance, women can't see the man's good, even if the man does a lot of things for her, she will think that it is the man's own thing, it has nothing to do with her, and she does not want two people to have a relationship.
Flirt with a woman you like, contact her to see the timing.
If she hesitates after knowing your intentions, the man should not be too enthusiastic, and do not rush to ask for answers, such a connection will only make her disgusted and feel that she is not respected.
After she has indicated that she does not want to contact, men should not contact her too humbly, and the more they put themselves too low, the easier it is to be looked down upon.
If you want to seduce a woman you like, you must maintain an equal status, and then do things that make her happy, and the idea is favored by her.
Be sincere, affectionate, stop being polite, and it is easier to pick up the woman you like.
The writer Zhou Guoping said: "The giving of love is neither a humble dedication nor an arrogant charity, it is a natural overflow out of inner abundance." ”
An excellent man, to learn to show their advantages, the most important thing is to enrich their own life first, do not give the woman a feeling that you are a person who holds a mobile phone and does nothing, but to be an interesting person, let her be attracted to you, take the initiative to be on your heart, and love will come.
May the people you love also happen to love you!
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