Clumsy wisdom: the mind is clear, the surface is confused
The highest state of being a human being is to be simple and humble. Obviously he knew everything, but he had a demented and stupid expression. This kind of person is not ostentatious, not highly respected, approachable, but more likely to be welcomed by everyone. Society is very realistic, and people's hearts are even more unpredictable.
When your smart appearance and sharpness are revealed, you are jealous.
So why bother?
Showing off yourself, nothing more than wanting to make people look up at you, nothing more than for vanity, there is light on your face, but when you are excluded in the official arena and the workplace, and you can't enjoy it, I don't know if there is a sigh of wisdom and disaster?
The wisdom of the mouth: do not be sharp, no matter how short the person is
There are not a few who suffer from words. The reason for this is nothing more than love for sharp teeth, love for people's length, and manipulation of right and wrong. And the most wronged are those people, who have no intention of speaking, who have been hearsay and taken out of context, and who have been hated through the ages.
So, if you speak carefully from the beginning, won't you be able to avoid many troubles?
As a human being, we must never forget the precept that "evil comes out of the mouth."
The wisdom of forbearance: know the male and the female, and retreat to advance
The real heroes are those who can stretch and bend.
No one has a smooth and smooth life, so it is worth raising an eyebrow when proud, but it is not blindly depressed when frustrated, and it should accumulate strength to wait for a comeback.
At this time, the hidden forbearance can be considered to taste all the tastes of life. Patience when frustrated is to know the male and female, to retreat into advance.
The wisdom of tolerance: peace is precious, tolerance and generosity
Confusion is a kind of belly volume, it is the sand that can be rubbed in the eyes, and it is the tolerance and generosity that is precious to peace. Forgive and forgive, many friends and many roads.
When you tolerate others, you also accumulate human feelings for yourself.
The sea is full of rivers, there is tolerance is great; people are tolerant, and it is easy to do things.
The wisdom of being a human being: foolish on the surface, shrewd on the inside
People are not vain, so people can not be too shrewd, too calculating, usually confused, leaving room for people, is the road to win-win.
Of course, on the surface, you can be confused, but in your heart, you have to make a small calculation and adjust yourself from time to time.
Look far ahead, don't stare at the shortcomings of others, and understand the truth that eating small losses can make big profits.
The wisdom of communication: good at confusion, widespread popularity
In social situations, true and false, false and real are indefensible.
Some of what others say can be taken seriously, and some are not.
A person who is good at confusion can be a friend with anyone, even the offense of others, and he can smile at it.
If you don't compare everything to the truth, you will avoid conflict and can influence each other.
Wisdom in handling things: deliberately showing weakness and pretending to be confused
Horses have lost their hooves, people have lost their feet, and they are dealing with the world, can they be careless?
Small falls hurt, big falls are not just pains.
It should be understood: deliberately showing weakness at the beginning and pretending to be confused, is it not possible to avoid the pain of standing high and falling?
The wisdom of self-cultivation: to contemplate life, contentment and happiness
The confused outlook on life lies in the need to observe life, be content and happy, he can see everything, so he is not insulted and calmly happy.
If you want to attain enlightenment, you must have a normal heart, go with the flow of everything, do not care about right and wrong, and laugh at the flowers before the court.
Life is less than a hundred, why worry about Chitose? The unpleasant things in life, can you forget, do not force anything, is not also very dashing?