Every time the child grows, it makes the mothers look forward to it, from the first time they open their eyes to the first time they shout "Mom", these touching moments mean that the baby is growing.
When it comes to growth, there will be great differences between children, in terms of speaking, some babies speak early, less than one year old, can clearly say some simple overlapping words, and in the hearts of parents, these children who speak early must be very smart.
On the contrary, some children speak a lot later, such as some children who have not spoken at the age of two and a half, and usually communicate only by fingers or nodding their heads, but in the face of this situation, some parents are under the banner of "noble people speak late" to give themselves some comfort.
Miao Miao gave birth to a son, because there was no old man to help, so the task of taking the child fell on the two little ones themselves.
In terms of taking care of children, Miao Miao attaches great importance to it, and will make a diet match for children every day to ensure the growth and development of children.
Seeing that the child is almost one and a half years old, in addition to the slow pace of language ability development, the rest of the height and weight are above the standard line, which is inseparable from Miao Miao's meticulous care.
However, the child's father is a little worried, other people's children will recite poems, their own children are still babbling and can only jump out of a few words, it will not be a problem.
Miao Miao listened to her husband's concerns and felt a little worried, and finally decided to ask the experienced people in the family, but the old man did not seem to take this matter to heart, but comforted Miao Miao that this is "noble people are late", which is a good thing.
In this regard, Miao Miao and her husband are also at a loss, is it a good thing that the child speaks late?
In fact, the saying that "noble people are late" is not reliable, it is just a sentence that parents comfort themselves.
In addition to the reasons why the child speaks late, there is also whether the parents have made the correct guidance, if the parents take care of the child too thoughtfully, the child has no opportunity to express himself, then the child will be too lazy to speak.
For example, parents usually take care of their children and never communicate with their children, which will also make children lose interest in speaking.
If parents hit their child's self-confidence when they try to speak, the child will also have a repulsion to speaking. So what should the baby do when he opens his mouth late?
Educating children needs to be gradual, if the child speaks late and speaks slowly, parents should not be anxious, but also have to master the following small tricks.
Sanduo refers to:
● Communicate with your child in short conversations:
When the child begins to show interest in external things, parents can try to communicate with the child.
For example, you can usually make some short conversations with children about objects, and use body language and expressions at the same time to make children have an intuitive impression.
It should be noted that parents must pay attention to slow down the speed of speech, and respond in time when the baby has a babbling sound.
● Guide your baby to ask questions more:
Parents should also pay attention to interacting with their babies and guiding them to learn to ask questions.
Through the way of communication, guide the baby to learn to communicate, let the baby participate in the dialogue, when the baby can express correctly, parents should also listen patiently and correct in time.
● Encourage your baby's progress more:
Communication with the baby requires parents to be very patient, the baby's speech speed is slow, the vocabulary is also small, and parents need to listen patiently and understand.
At the same time, for the baby's progress, parents must not be stingy with encouragement, encourage the baby more, and give the baby the opportunity to open his mouth, which will prompt the baby to speak bravely.
Two less:
● Use less language to complain about the baby's slow speech:
Parents must pay attention to the fact that when the baby speaks slowly and inaccurately, parents can correct and encourage in time, and do not complain or laugh at the baby.
This will make the baby resist talking, so that he becomes introverted and does not like to express.
● Less "will":
Generally parents will make such a mistake, the baby slightly expresses the intention of wanting something, and the mother immediately takes the thing to the child.
This practice will only make the baby too lazy to speak, since I can achieve the goal with a small finger, then why bother to speak?
Mommy has something to say: In addition, if you want the baby to develop language skills, parents can also cultivate their children through picture books, and many positive picture books on the market can now be used to give the baby language enlightenment, and parents can choose some for the baby appropriately.
【Transferred from: Sohu Original — Beautiful Parenting Talk】