Master Wang of Fuyang, Hangzhou, was introduced to Sister Gu of Sichuan in 2008, when Master Wang had a son who was 12 years old, and Sister Gu was with a son and two daughters, four children of similar age, just like this, no one hated anyone, after two years of interaction, the two registered for marriage.
A flash of 14 years has passed, the original two love has become two disgust, Master Wang said with some choking, he and his wife are opening a restaurant, but now do not want to live with his wife, because more than ten years later, he is penniless, to say ugly, even can not afford to buy a pack of cigarettes, and even ask his wife for this money.
What is even more intolerable to Master Wang is that he has raised his wife's three children since 2010, but now his wife denies his efforts, saying that he did not raise children, and that his wife suspects that he is out of the house with other women and has installed a tracker in his car.
Speaking of this, Master Wang choked even more, he said that he really couldn't eat such a day, and then under the leadership of Master Wang, when we came to the hotel, we also met his wife, Sister Gu.
At the first meeting, Sister Gu took the lead in telling her and her husband's past, in Sister Gu's view, it was her husband who deceived her, if her husband had been honest with each other at that time, she would not have chosen to marry her husband at all.
It turned out that in 2008, Sister Gu told Master Wang about her situation, three children, and she was also checked out of rheumatoid, so that now her legs and feet are a little less sharp, at that time she asked Master Wang to be mentally prepared, if she can accept it, if she can't accept it, then forget it.
Obviously, Master Wang did not mind this matter, Sister Gu remembered very clearly, at that time Master Wang's salary was only 2100 a month, anyway, it was very poor, buying a bag of more than ten pieces of cigarettes can not afford to buy, but Sister Gu did not abandon, she felt that the poor point is okay, because she came out of the Sichuan ravine, not afraid of hardship, as long as two people can be honest, the future life will definitely be lived.
Of course, Sister Gu also has something that she cares about, that is, she does not like to owe debts, so at that time she also asked Master Wang whether there was any foreign debt outside, and Master Wang swore that she did not owe foreign debts, and in this way, after getting Master Wang's promise and guarantee, she and Master Wang re-established a family.
However, in 2010, Sister Gu felt very sad, because the house left by her father-in-law was too broken to live at all, it rained heavily when they went out to work that day, and when they came back, the quilts in the house were leaking wet, and the ground was also a pool of water, so Sister Gu wanted to build a new house.
Since she wants to build a house, and there is no money in hand, Sister Gu wants to ask her husband's two sisters to borrow some money, but she called the big sister in the past, and the big sister said that the brother borrowed her seventeen thousand years ago and did not repay it, there is no way to lend it to him, at this time, Sister Gu only knew that her husband had foreign debt, and subconsciously she also asked her husband, is there money owed to the second sister? The husband was always speechless.
Sure enough, when Sister Gu called the second sister to borrow money, she knew that her husband also owed the second sister 9500, and at that time, Sister Gu was angry and cried, until now that she recalled the past, she still couldn't help but cry, in Sister Gu's view, it was one thing for her husband to cheat on her before marriage, and another was that from her birth, the family had a lot of debts for her, and it was hard to pay it off after growing up, and she just knew her husband for a few years, but she just lived a life and did not do anything to be in debt.
But crying, the house can not live in a way to find a way, she had to cry with her own sister to borrow 80,000 yuan to build the house, let her more sad is that this money has been borrowed for more than ten years, so far has not been returned to the sister, Gu Sister feels really tired, it seems that the life has been spent on the road to repay debts.
In this regard, Master Wang admitted that he did owe money to his two sisters, but his wife asked her sister to borrow 80,000 yuan and also paid back a little, this house was 230,000 at the time, and the rest of the money was the money he earned, anyway, it was used while earning.
But what makes people wonder is that the two families are opening a restaurant, how come this money has not been repaid for more than ten years? So how much money does a restaurant make each year?
On this point, Sister Gu, who managed the account, actually said that she did not calculate how much money she could make in a year, and the money earned was used in this house, and before she finished speaking, Master Wang said that it was still used for three children, my own children I did not raise, all of them were the three children of the adopted wife, although my children were awarded to me, but I was not capable, and I had to raise so many children, and another child would not follow me, so I returned to my ex-wife.
Sister Gu does not recognize these words of her husband, because her son is indeed staying around, the two daughters are sent to their hometown in Sichuan to let their mother help carry, the first year will give 1200 per month, the second year is to have money to give points, no money even if it is, after that is the same occasional to give points, said that Sister Gu questioned her husband, dare to say that you did not raise your son? Didn't pay him tuition?
Master Wang said that he only raised his son when he was in elementary school, but he did not raise him in junior high school, and even if he gave money, it was only given once in a while.
At this time, the mediator persuaded Master Wang that since he knew about this matter before marriage, there was no need to argue about it, and it was understandable that the child was not an adult and raised a child, and the most important thing was how to live in the future.
At this point, Master Wang also recognized this, not caring about raising children, what he cared about was that since 2014, he was mainly responsible for the kitchen, his wife was responsible for collecting money and serving food, so many years he could not understand the accounts, and every month his wife was also strictly controlled for the expenses of life.
In Master Wang's view, this year's business is much better than last year's, more do not say, less do not say, a month to get rid of all expenses, the average monthly income of fifteen thousand is definitely there, but whether it is oil money or tobacco money, he does not ask his wife to beg, the wife does not bring, even if you want, it is only given dozens of dollars.
Sister Gu thinks that her husband is exaggerating, it is impossible to leave fifteen thousand a month, as for how much, she can't estimate, the only thing that can be affirmed is that she used to borrow money every year, only this year the hotel business is better, plus the children are also in college, so there is no borrowing money.
And the husband can't have no pocket money, every time he plays mahjong to win money will be given to his son, every day to give his husband the money to buy vegetables he can't have no balance, how can it be as tight as he said.
At this time Master Wang completely collapsed, he roared at his wife every time to give him only four hundred or five hundred to buy vegetables, and every time he came back from buying vegetables, he also reported to her, sometimes the money for buying vegetables was not enough, and he also called his wife to ask him, and even showed her the balance in the mobile phone, only a few dollars could not even buy a pack of cigarettes, until now his wife was still saying such words, anyway, even if the heavenly king Lao Tzu came today, this marriage was also fixed, and he would not live with his wife, and this day could not be consumed.
Sister Gu also came to lose her temper, who has to live the same life as you, will not live with you, rest assured, but Sister Gu feels that her husband is not divorced for this matter at all, but there are people outside, the reason why they are so suspicious, there must be a reason.
It turned out that Sister Gu was hospitalized some time ago, she wanted her friend's mother to come and help, but the husband had to ask another aunt to come to help, helplessly, Sister Gu had to agree to let this aunt come over, but the husband was very enthusiastic about this aunt, and the staff meals eaten every day were also very good, not pig's feet, chicken feet, and even crab fried rice cakes.
Sister Gu said that in the past, they ate the leftover fast food in the store every day, in short, it was very simple, but when this aunt came, the husband changed, and every time she ate, the husband still sat very close to the aunt, so that the daughter sometimes couldn't look at it.
Since becoming suspicious, Sister Gu also took measures, that is, installed a tracking monitor on her husband's car, one rainy night, her husband drove out with this aunt and ran to a very remote place, Sister Gu also vaguely heard this aunt say such a sentence, was found by your wife? The husband replied yes.
At that moment, Sister Gu also followed the positioning and chased after the past, opened the car door to see the aunt sitting in the co-pilot, the sitting posture is also very unsightly, the two of them are there chatting about the sky, if they do not chase past, do not know what else will happen.
In this regard, Master Wang admitted that he was indeed chatting with this aunt that day, but nothing happened, at that time the conversation was also about the salary problem, the aunt felt that the salary was a little low, as for the pig's foot is made for a customer, when the money is collected, it is cheaper, people are embarrassed to send some tiptoes to eat, and crabs are also sent to sell aquatic products, are dead crabs, people don't want it, why go to such a remote place to chat, Master Wang also can't answer, for what he said was found by his wife, It was also the aunt who thought that this meal was specially bought for her.
After listening to her husband's explanation, Sister Gu did not believe it, because her husband's behavior was not the first time, when she also found that her husband called other women's wives on WeChat, when Sister Gu was angry, she directly gave her husband a slap, in order to prove that what she said was not false, Sister Gu also came up with the evidence that she had taken before.
At the moment, Master Wang once again admitted that there was indeed such a thing, but there was a reason why he was called so, because it was people who asked him to call him husband first, so he called the wife of the other person, and this person was also searched from people nearby, and he had not been in contact for a long time, and all contact information had been deleted.
Saying that Master Wang pointed the spearhead at his wife again, he said that his wife had also avoided him from answering other men's video calls, and she did not answer downstairs, ran upstairs to pick up, when he also followed upstairs, and also frightened his wife, did not do anything wrong, why do you have to answer the video call behind his back?
For a time, Sister Gu became the object of questioning, she said that she was not afraid of the shadow oblique, this man she did not know at all, downstairs he played the video so it was cut off, went upstairs and has been playing, so it was picked up, what this man said is, your husband is not good for you, divorced can follow me, Sister Gu also returned to him, even if divorced with her husband, and no one wants it, why do you have to follow you.
In Sister Gu's view, the relationship with her husband this year is getting worse and worse, it is because of the appearance of these two women, anyway, she is uncomfortable, but Master Wang feels that his wife's temper is too hot, he has not been able to eat, he will threaten him with a kitchen knife at every turn, and in the early years, his wife also forced him to divorce, and recently smashed the car, the tires were all scratched, so he was completely cold.
At this time, the mediator felt that although the two had contradictions, but they were willing to correct it, the marriage could still be retained, but Master Wang did not accept it, his attitude was very resolute and must be divorced, seeing her husband's resolute attitude, Sister Gu did not want to say anything more, she originally did not want to divorce, but since her husband wanted to leave, it was gone.
Seeing that his wife agreed, Master Wang also wanted to distribute the property problem by the way, when the shop decoration bank loan of 100,000 yuan he came to repay, the wife borrowed her sister's money by the wife to repay, there is no opinion on this Gu sister, the house is half a person, the downstairs shop is either opened by her, or the husband opens, if the annual rent needs twenty-five thousand, then whoever opens it will give the other party half of the rent.
But Master Wang only agreed to the house one person half, but the business no one should do, Master Wang said that the shop from 2014 until now almost no closed door, he rested for a total of 2 days, these days the contradiction closed for 3 days, no meaning, in short, can not open, no reason, is not open.
I have to say that Master Wang's decision is quite overbearing, of course, Sister Gu did not agree, and in the end the two could not reach an agreement, and the mediator gave up on this, and could only persuade the two to solve it through legal channels.
postscript:
Now, the 14-year relationship has come to an end, the only thing left is to sigh, obviously so bitter days have come, now the children are also older, the hotel business is better, but the two can no longer insist, you have to ask what the love is, it is really difficult to figure out.
For Master Wang, maybe he is really too tired, or maybe he really has other thoughts outside, so this will be resolute to divorce, in fact, stick to it, maybe you can see the dawn right away, the unexpected divorce, why do you feel that there is a darkness in front of you? Is it really worth all these years of effort to let go at this time?
Wife Gu sister is still good, originally willing to accompany you to suffer hardships, borrow money to build a house, and then accompany you to do business, along the way is really not easy, husband and wife will inevitably have some bumps and bumps, but everything is well negotiated, it is not impossible to solve, there is really no need to choose divorce this road to go, a person's road looks very dashing, behind the back is actually more desolate.
However, as a wife Gu Dajie, the economic power in charge of the housekeeper is also correct, but everything must also have a degree, but also have a tight and loose, first of all, the account should be at least clear, as the saying goes, eating is not poor, wearing is not poor, will not calculate will be poor, men are the rakes that grab money, women are the boxes for money, can not be bottomless, at least there must be a plan.
Moreover, the husband and wife are fair, the living expenses must also be given to the husband's living expenses, grasping so tightly, even the pack of cigarettes can not afford to buy, such a day is really not interesting Ha, husband and wife is to understand each other, communicate with each other, he must understand your difficulty, you also have to understand his hardships.