Every parent is their own child's enlightenment teacher, so parents must know these things that should be taught to their children on the way to choosing to educate their children:
1. Motivate children to learn.
As parents are "people who come over", I know the importance of reading. We should also let our children understand that any path to success always has unimaginable twists and turns and hardships, and reading and learning is to make an effort to add another road for their future.
2. Let children grow up on their own.
Every child is the palm treasure of parents, and because of this, there are inevitably many parents who dot on their children, excessive protection of children from the outside world, like flowers in the greenhouse, parents can not always accompany them around, once we hold up the umbrella for them is not there, they are more vulnerable to storms and setbacks, so as parents, can not overprotect them, let them learn to be independent is more conducive to their growth.
3. Parenting is the most important thing.
A person's upbringing is inseparable from family education. Parents in life may be seen by the child into the eyes, so we parents should first do should be to take ourselves as a model, strict requirements for our own actions, in order to set an example for the child, take the lead. Let the children know that their spiritual abundance is the most precious thing.
4. Let children understand that suffering is not sin.
With the development of society, it is not uncommon for parents to dot on their children, and many children have become spoiled under the protection of their parents and cannot eat a little bitterness.
And the children who grow up in this way can't withstand the wind when they grow up, and they can't accept the rain. In the face of the pressure of life, it is difficult to face it calmly, it is difficult to make a difference, and a little setback may make them stagnant.
5. Language is an art.
Language can change a child's thinking, learn to speak, and benefit a lifetime.
To cultivate children's emotional intelligence, parents communicate with their children more, see them as independent thinkers, respect what they think, and avoid using our experience to limit what they do.
As parents, we should actively guide our children's education, and encourage and tolerate children's regular affirmation, which is often more able to stimulate children's potential.
6. Taking responsibility is not terrible.
Taking responsibility, let children understand the meaning of responsibility, but also let them grow up quickly and become a person with responsibility and ability. We should let them understand that responsibility is not terrible, it is not advisable to evade responsibility, responsibility is also a driving force, and with motivation, only then can they be determined to complete their dreams.
As competent and wise parents, we must let our children realize the meaning of responsibility earlier, teach them the courage to take on their responsibilities, and make them more brilliant in their future lives.
The same we parents must lead by example, give the child a good start, when we make mistakes, can not be because they are children and are not willing to admit our own problems, for a long time, the child will be affected by the parents in the little things in life, do the same behavior.
When time goes on, let the children develop good habits, they will understand: the courage to take responsibility, admit their mistakes, but more can be understood and respected by others.
Every child is directly or indirectly influenced by the actions of their own parents, and educating children is the responsibility and mission of every parent.
Therefore, I hope that parents in the world can competently guide and educate their children correctly and let them grow up healthy and happy.
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