Today's society, began to vigorously advocate the second child, the third child, many families also have a plan to continue to have children, after all, a single child, the growth environment will be more lonely, the future child is adult, around the encounter with things negotiable relatives are also relatively small, so many families for their own treasure, are planning to have a second child. Some people think more traditionally, thinking that the more people in a family, the more prosperous they will be, and now even the state is so supportive, how to respond to the call of the state, when the age is still right, as soon as possible to build a baby.
And now the society is very progressive, the level of medical care is also constantly improving, compared to before, now even if it is a couple in their 40s, it is entirely possible to conceive again, the risk will not be very large.
But many people have ignored a problem, that is, the age gap between their own big treasure and the second treasure, many families' big treasure, is already 20 majority of adults, and their younger brothers and sisters are still in kindergarten, this age gap is a bit disparity, resulting in many big treasures are very disgusted with their younger brothers and sisters, thinking that they are a burden.
The 28-year-old sister picked up her sister from school and was mistaken for her own daughter
The Internet posted such a set of photos, in the photo of a fashionably dressed little sister to the kindergarten to pick up the child from school, only to see the little sister with her arms together, walking in the front, an impatient look, and the little sister who followed behind herself carried a school bag, did not dare to say a word, pouted, looking weak and pitiful.
Many people think that this is the picture of the mother picking up the daughter from school, but in fact, this pair is a sister relationship, the little sister said that she is now 28 years old, her parents still have to give her a sister, in addition to taking care of the sister's daily life, picking up and dropping off her sister to and from school has become her main task, many men mistakenly think that she is a married woman, so she does not dare to come forward to talk, resulting in her missing a lot of beautiful marriages.
In fact, the distress of this little sister is not only a phenomenon of individual families, with the opening of the two-child and three-child policies, more and more families have taken action to add new life to their families, but they often ignore the feelings of Dabao, but they just feel that when the children grow up in the future, there will no longer be related problems.
But the age gap between the two children is too large, will cause a lot of problems, the age gap leads to each other's concepts, different ideas, even after adulthood, can not communicate better, and parents are getting older day by day, if Xiao Bao's age is too small, the heavy responsibility of taking care of Xiao Bao will have to press on Dabao's body, which will cause huge pressure to Dabao, his own life has been general, plus the burden of younger brothers and sisters, it is really bitter and can not be said.
Parents should know how to empathize and communicate more with their children
For the above family, in fact, as a parent should understand the pain of the sister, the palms of the hands and the back of the hands are meat, the sister is now age marriageable, and should not bear these public opinions, if the parents can pick up and drop off the sister more in life, accompany the sister more, let the sister have her own space, you can find the right other half, rather than the daily care of the sister to the sister, so that the sister feels aggrieved.
If the sister can find a suitable boyfriend and help take care of the younger sister together, then such a picture will appear much warmer, and it will also make life full of fun, and the sister can harvest more care and grow up in a loving family, only in this way can the family be happier.
Everyone has their own ideas, there is no problem between husband and wife wanting to have a second or third child, but at the beginning should first seek the opinion of their own children, the child is slowly growing up, with their own ideas, if the child is firmly opposed, can not accept their younger siblings, that over time will cause the child's rebellious psychology, such a situation I believe no one wants to see.