Children are more likely to lose their temper, children lose their temper, parents are often easy to be anxious, watching children do not listen, either rely on loud reprimands to solve, or directly use force to solve, these are not good methods.
Children who are often reprimanded and scolded will grow up to become short-tempered, and their relationship with their parents will not be harmonious, they will be more disobedient, their hearts will be more rebellious, and they will not have great respect for their parents.
What should I do if my child loses his temper? Three ways to help you:
1. Maintain a calm tone
If the child loves to lose his temper, it is often because the parents have taken inappropriate treatment before, and the child has formed inertia, become grumpy, and it is difficult to control himself.
So the first thing to change should be the parents, keep the tone of peace, do not raise the octave, do not try to use loud words to overwhelm the child; for the child's unreasonable needs, patiently and firmly refuse, tell the child to speak with a normal tone of voice, and give the child a demonstration, how to say, the child will calm down, good character needs to be slowly trained.
2. Accept your child's emotions
Don't hate the child's tantrum, this is normal emotional catharsis, the child feels that his requirements are not met, or has been wronged, he wants to express it, in fact, he wants to get the comfort and attention of his parents.
Do not follow the rhythm of the child, see the child in a hurry, let the child lose his temper, quietly listen to the child's words, and then soothe the child's emotions, find the reason, help the child solve the problem encountered, can not solve the appropriate rejection, let the child know that the world is not all for you to turn, there is a reasonable positioning.
3, parents do not lose their temper at will
Children who love to lose their temper, often behind the love of tantrums parents, the child's personality and parents are very similar, children like to imitate the adult's tone of speech, the tone of voice, parents should be a good example, do not lose their temper at will.
Don't be angry because of a little thing, learn to speak well, be gentle and elegant, create a civilized and peaceful family atmosphere at home, and the children are cultivated, civilized, and polite.
A child who loves to lose his temper, if he is out of the house, will appear uncultivated, self-sufficient, do not understand control, and poor cooperation. People like small partners with strong affinity and pleasant getting along, and there are more win-win opportunities.
Let the child's personality be gentle and emotionally stable, starting from the parents, give the child a good example, input more positive energy, establish the correct three views, love everything about the child, dissolve the bad emotions, and shape a good character.
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