Now some parents are stupid and create tragedies for themselves in their later years. It will not only harm your children and grandchildren, but also harm your own children, but also harm the country. This one is horrible.
Whatever seeds parents plant in their children, they will get what fruits. I have a friend who taught his son to kill chickens from a young age, and later his son was very famous for killing chickens, and people in the whole community bought live chickens for him to kill. He kills chickens without money, that is, he leaves the chicken's internal organs and the meat is taken away by the family. Then one day the son quarreled with his parents, and in a fit of rage, he slashed his parents several times.
Then his mother came to me and I said do you know why your son cut you, and she said she didn't know. I said think about how it felt when you first taught your son to kill chickens? She said he was nervous the first time, didn't kill the chicken, and then pinched his neck to death because he didn't dare to kill. But later, more and more people killed, and they became more and more skilled.
I said: That's it. Man was good in nature at the beginning, why would he rather pinch to death than kill when he killed the first chicken, because his kindness was still there. But you have been encouraging him from the side, you said that a young man can't even kill chickens, how to do it. It is you who let your children watch these bloody scenes every day, and after he got used to watching them, as soon as his temper came up, his anger burned, and he cut your husband and wife as chickens. He didn't feel or numb anymore. She said yes, my son stood there and watched stupidly after cutting us.
I've also heard a story about a kindergarten where most of the children of wealthy and powerful families are. One day, the kindergarten organizes an event for the children to perform a show. Because every child is the heart and liver baby of the family, many people from each family come to see the performance, and even some families bring professional camera crews in addition to their parents and grandparents. When the show started, every family wanted to find the best angle to shoot their children, but there was only one best position. These parents quarreled on the spot, and even fought hard. Let's all think about the impact this will have on children. Therefore, we parents must pay great attention to our own speech and behavior, be very cautious, and not use our status and power to show off to others, or even suppress others. We need to be compassionate and egalitarian at all times, so that our children will also become kind and loving.
So our little behavior, our language, will have an impact on the child's growth. I always say that parenthood should do three things: be a king. Parents should take on the heavy responsibility of guardianship and education of their children and help their children develop good living habits. Be pro. It is necessary to accompany the child more and instill some concepts of family affection over interests. Third, be a teacher. Parents' words and deeds are very important, relying on themselves to influence the education of children.