In the era of parents, two-child families are actually not uncommon, many families have two children, Xiaomi is a member of the two-child family.
Xiaomi is a sister, and there is a younger sister, since childhood, parents have been teaching Xiaomi, no matter what you do, you must let your sister. When you grow up, you must introduce yourself to your sister when you have a good job, and even if you get married, you must keep in touch with your sister and take more care of your sister in terms of life.
Although the sisters have now married each other, every month the sister always comes to Xiaomi's home for a few days. Xiaomi's daughter is 5 years old this year, the little girl has a lively and cute personality, and the sister has a very naughty son, who is 4 years old this year. Whenever Xiaomi's sister brought her son to stay at home for a short time, the little girl was very unhappy.
It was not until the end of the month, and the sister brought her son to xiaomi's house for a few days, which seemed to have become the norm. As soon as she saw her aunt come in, Xiaomi's daughter entered the room unhappily, and in the evening, after the family had dinner, Xiaomi went to the kitchen to wash the dishes.
At this time, there was a sudden quarrel in the living room, and it turned out that two children had quarreled because of toys. Originally, Xiaomi wanted to go over to persuade her daughter, but she did not expect that the 5-year-old daughter had no cover and tore off the traditional family fig leaf: "Mom, I hate my aunt to live at home, every time she comes, she always wants me to let my brother, but the problem is that I have not done anything wrong, it is my brother who is too naughty."
Hearing her daughter's words, Xiaomi did not know what to do, and could only lead the child back to the room.
Although the little girl and the little brother are not born to the same parents, there will be many contradictions because they have to play for a few days every month, and around us, multi-child families will also encounter many problems.
What problems do families with multiple children encounter?
1. Parents are unfair
There are several children in the family, and parents will also be eccentric when educating children, and originally a portion of food can be enjoyed by a child. But after having two children or several children, the same food should be distributed to each child, and once the parents deviate, there is a high probability that there will be dissatisfaction between the children.
2. There is a conflict
Although two children are born to the same parents, have the same blood, and have many similarities in genetic inheritance, this does not mean that the two children are the same in personality or other aspects. Children are likely to have different ways of doing things because of differences in personality or three views, and conflicts will occur once they touch each other's interests.
3, there is a comparison
On closer inspection, it is not difficult to find that even twins will have a gap in IQ and emotional intelligence. When one of the children is outstanding in appearance and too good in all aspects, the other ordinary child will be jealous in his heart, and once the parents do not deal with these details, there is a high probability that there will be a comparison between the children.
Whether it is a twin family or a family with two children with a large age difference, parents must correctly handle the relationship between each child and use scientific methods to educate.
How should parents educate families with many children?
2. Calm your mind
Each child has its own advantages and disadvantages, and it is impossible to be exactly the same, so parents should also be at ease when educating children. Not treating children differently with various factors will not only destroy the parent-child relationship, but also cause problems in the feelings between siblings, and the correct approach for parents is to encourage children to play their own advantages.
Cultivate brotherhood
The most important point is that parents should learn to cultivate the feelings between hands and siblings, and when parents buy a toy, they can give it to the boss and let him play evenly among each child. Usually, parents can also design some small games that focus on cooperation, so that children can enhance their feelings for each other through games.
There are many families with many children who not only do not support the elderly well after their parents grow old, but also blame each other for various reasons. In fact, in multi-child families, parents must pay attention to cultivating brotherhood between children, and whether siblings can live in harmony not only needs to rely on the education of parents, but more importantly, it is the parents' physical practice.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
At the same time, take this book to the child, usually the child also tutors mathematics, sometimes feel that going to cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also apply what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!