Now the living conditions are getting better and better, many parents are not willing to let their children participate in labor, good food and clothing to provide, parents would rather suffer themselves, but also let the children enjoy the best life treatment, over time to spoil the children, not only good food lazy to do, and many children have become bald, accumulation and degeneration.
I don't know if you have ever thought of such a question, why are children 15 and 6 still lazy and lazy, and what is the reason?
No child is born with habits.
The habit of laziness and lazy cooking in children is caused by improper family education. In the end, it is all caused by the incorrect way of parenting.
Imagine how it is possible to cultivate a self-conscious, self-disciplined, and hard-working child in a coddled, pampered, tolerant, accommodating, and habitual family.
The habits and problems in children are formed by long-term bit by bit, slowly accumulating, accumulating and accumulating.
Now that he is a fifteen or sixteen-year-old child, it is really difficult to correct and change his lazy habits and habits.
Since parents are now aware of the seriousness of the problem, the following suggestions are for your reference only.
First, completely change the past coddled education management methods. Fifteen or sixteen-year-old children are already a big child, according to this age, they are basically middle and high school students, and they understand many things and reasons. As a parent, you must tell him in a righteous and clear manner that every member of the family should assume their own responsibilities and fulfill their obligations, parents work, earn money, support the family, support the elderly and children, this is the responsibility and obligation of parents, as children should do their own things, the family should do their own responsibilities and obligations.
Second, cut off the offerings and teach them to fend for themselves. The money that should be given to them, the points that should not be given should not be given to him, and the ins and outs of each sum of money should be clear and clear. And we must let them know that every penny is not easy to come by, spend the money provided by their parents, do not be so natural and at ease, must do their due obligations and responsibilities, so as to be worthy of their parents' hard-earned money.
Third, family affairs, housework, what the child can bear is rightly sealed to him and let him bear it, for example, the child's own clothes wash themselves and organize their own things, and parents can no longer do it instead.
The last thing to say is that the habits on the child are not formed in a day or two, but a long-term accumulation process, and it is very difficult to change them all at once, but as long as parents want to change, as long as they make up their minds, as long as the methods are appropriate and firmly implemented, they will definitely receive results.