Not long ago, a video that was played on the Internet made people think about the problem of children's education. The video was taken on a bus, where a mother led her daughter to sit down by the window, and the little girl was about 5 years old, carrying a small cage containing a small hamster, which looked like it should be a small pet bought on the side of the road.
Surprisingly, after sitting down, the little girl reached into the cage, grabbed the hamster's two feet, and grabbed it out. The hamster was head down, and the little girl was shaking its legs vigorously, without any pity, but with a very cheerful laugh, and the mother did not have any reaction. The picture seemed a little scary, and the timid girls around them couldn't help but lean elsewhere.
Suddenly, the little girl's hand was not firm, the hamster ran to the side seat, another smaller girl was frightened and shouted, the hamster kept running in the car, and all the passengers panicked. The frightened little girl's mother couldn't help but accuse her of this bad behavior, but unexpectedly, the mother of the little girl who caught the hamster actually replied: "What does this have to do with my daughter." And this little girl actually nodded her head in agreement, and everyone was angry, such a family education really made people fall through the eyeballs.
Parents are the best teachers for children, but how sad it is that this mother's words and practices have made the little girl lose the innocence and compassion that she should have at this age.
How to raise a child to be a caring person?
1. Teach your children by example
Children from birth, will unconsciously learn the words and deeds of their parents, if the parents are a kind person, gentle to the child to things, tolerant of all things, the child will become tolerant, they will be more open-minded to tolerate others. If the parents are grumpy, the child will also become paranoid. Parents must teach their children by example, set an example with their own behavior, lead by example, verbal counseling, and tell and train their children to be a kind person.
2. Discover the two-sided nature of things
Many things have two sides, even if it is a bad thing, there is a good side. Parents should cultivate their children's ability to discover two sides of things, not only to see the bad places, but to let children see the world in many ways, so that children can find lessons and experiences from things and grow better.
At the same time, parents should also discover the advantages and disadvantages of their children, affirm the advantages, and guide the shortcomings to correct, rather than blindly scolding the child. If the child can see things from many aspects, he will think more openly when he grows up, which is very important for the child's health. Therefore, parents should try to let their children see the world with a pair of eyes that can find beauty.
3. Don't compare
Parents take children to show off or contrast with each other, invisibly affect the child's three views, children may have jealousy or disgust for other people, when this emotion has been growing, may affect the child's love for parents.
Parents should reward and punish their children with moderation, if they have been suppressing their children, the children may have too much pressure and collapse; if parents continue to praise their children, the children may also be conceited and dismissive of others. No matter what kind of attitude, it is not good and will affect the growth of children.
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
If you want your child to learn mathematics well, the first step is to first understand the basic concepts of mathematics; secondly, the origin of its basic concepts, which requires parents to accompany their children to read more mathematical books and play some mathematical games in the process of tutoring their children's mathematical problems.
However, climbing the pinnacle of mathematics is not an easy task. Yang Zhenning, a world-famous physicist, said: "I also think mathematics is very boring, but when I saw Liu Xuanyu's math book, I was very surprised. Can you still learn math like this? ”
Yang Zhenning was the greatest physicist after Newton and Einstein. The math teacher he can recognize, Liu Xuanyu, can't be wrong.
Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
The second book is "Mathematical Fun", which mainly talks about the mathematical problems encountered in daily life, we say that all things are mathematics, and learning mathematics through all things is the fastest.
The third book is The Garden of Mathematics, which is a bit more difficult, and it talks about the concepts of functions, continuums, induced functions, differentiation, integrals, and sums, as well as the basic principles of their operations. Although it is a little deep, the method of explanation is very good, and the sixth grade baby can still understand part of the content.
Colleagues show this book to children, usually children also tutor mathematics, sometimes feel that cram school is a bit boring. But when the child read this book, he found it very interesting, and he could also use what he learned in the cram school.
I didn't feel tired after watching it for an hour! Parents: It's a rare good book!
For this set of classic mathematical science books compiled by Mr. Liu Xuanyu, parents also gave a high evaluation, parents said that "this series of books in general has a kind of follow-through temptation, from shallow to deep feeling, the language is particularly convincing"
It can be said that after reading this set of books, there is no need to worry about mathematics in elementary and junior high schools.
This set of classic mathematics series, the biggest benefit is to stimulate students' hidden enthusiasm and desire to learn, so that students love to learn mathematics, many parents said that "Mathematics Three Books" is a rare good book, can not be missed!