As the child grows up day by day, one day he will leave the protective arms of his parents, and when the child steps into the kindergarten school, he will face many challenges alone. Children's environment is not always beautiful, and in kindergartens, children are often bullied by other children, so what do adults do to keep their children from being bullied?
As a parent, there is no way to guarantee that their children will not be bullied outside, as the saying goes, there are rivers and lakes where there are people, and children are the same, but it is difficult for parents to face this situation: if the child does not fight back, he will worry that the child is cowardly, he will be bullied more and more, teach him to fight back, and fear that the child will be accustomed to violent solutions from now on, it is even more difficult!
Reports show that 1 in 3 children has been bullied.
So, no matter what the situation, you don't expect others to accommodate you, it is impossible, only we help the children ourselves, how to avoid being bullied.
The child has been "bullied", and if your baby dares to fight back, it is commendable! Often the reality is that some children have a timid personality and may be very strong in front of their parents, but they are very afraid to fight back when they encounter this kind of situation without adults.
What should parents do?
1. Calm your child's emotions and understand the truth of the matter
After the child is "bullied", tell you that you need to calm the child's emotions at the first time, do not let him be in negative emotions for a long time, patiently listen to the cause of the incident, understand the truth of the event through communication with the child, and guide the child's emotional venting.
It is very common for children to play between children to have some friction, sometimes just careless moves in play, parents do not go on the line, to determine whether it is a problem that the child can solve by himself, if it is a serious attack, parents also need to solve it in time, communicate with each other's parents and teachers.
2. Teach children to resist appropriately
Let the child have the courage to express their dissatisfaction, resist this kind of violence, do not have a sullen life after being bullied, and when there is a fight with children of the same age, you must properly resist and fight back, if you are bullied by the big child, you must call out to the adult's gang in time!
3. Cultivate children's awareness of taking the initiative to seek help
Many times we are not afraid of children being bullied occasionally, and the most feared thing is that children will not tell you after being bullied, and they will digest their emotions there!
In reality, many children are bullied and dare not tell adults and teachers, resulting in long-term bullying, and when adults know it, it is often too late!
Therefore, from an early age, we must cultivate the awareness that children encounter any difficulties and any problems can seek help, tell him that all things are solved, and as a parent, you must become a strong backing for your children!
Let him know that as long as you say it, someone will help you! Parents should not use negative emotions to guide their children!
4. Exercise and enhance your physique
Children who are bullied outside are basically timid and weak, children also have eyesight, which children I can bully, which can not be bullied, so we must change their children, let him exercise, have a good physique, in order to protect themselves!
Parents are the safest and most trusted harbor for children, when children are bullied, we must teach him the courage to resist, more often or need to let go to guide children to solve problems, give them more trust and understanding, do a good job of shield work!