"Now the relationship between teachers and parents is getting more and more tense"
In the past, children began to pay attention to the relationship with teachers after they went to junior high school, but now many children are going to start as long as they go to school, and parents are more afraid of teachers than children.
Because now many teachers are really frightening, especially kindergarten teachers, the previous kindergarten is just a good place for parents to relax and have children to take care of.
But now the kindergarten has also become the starting line, the teacher said: "Don't let the child lose on the starting line", parents have begun to act, eager to let the child become a prodigy.
Today's kindergarten parents should not only pay attention to the safety and health of their children, but also pay attention to some traps set by teachers when they have nothing to do.
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The kindergarten teacher borrowed 30,000 yuan from the parents, and baoma's wit refused, and the high emotional intelligence was praised countless times
Xiao Xiao had a hard time waiting for her daughter to go to kindergarten, she thought she could return to the workplace, but she didn't expect that the child was too early to go to work, and then Xiao Xiao realized that she didn't have a brain to go to work.
Because you think going to kindergarten is just a child's own business? In fact, parents are also in kindergarten at home, because you can't help but worry, often holding the mobile phone monitoring to watch a day.
There are also various homework every day, and sometimes the IQ of parents needs to be tested, and it can only be said that parents are also enrolled in an old kindergarten. And you also have to think about getting along with the teacher, don't let the teacher bother your baby.
This involves emotional intelligence, and when it comes to emotional intelligence, it has to be said that the little emotional intelligence is high, because this day the daughter class teacher sent herself a WeChat.
The general content is to borrow 30,000 yuan from her, and at first it was embarrassing for Xiao Xiao, because she was also the first time she encountered this situation, but after a while she thought of a way to refuse.
It was very simple to reply with a sentence: "The stolen number, right?" ”。
Then the teacher saw that Xiao Xiao did not directly answer the call to be handed out this sentence, very embarrassed, can only say yes, down the steps.
And this small operation is also to help many parents who encounter this situation to solve the problem, because the teacher and parents themselves are sensitive, if there is such a request to directly refuse is not good.
It is still uncomfortable not to refuse yourself, many people praise the small high emotional intelligence, and the small one also gets countless praises.
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In the face of teachers borrowing money, how should parents deal with it?
Pretend not to see the reply the next day
In general, if a teacher borrows money from a parent, it must be because of an emergency, and if you don't want to borrow, the best way is to pretend to miss the best "rescue time".
And when you really accidentally miss the time when he needs money the most, there is no way to open his mouth like you, and if he still needs it, it is called to show that the situation is not in crisis, and he is lying.
Then you can directly debunk, many times you have to remember that the more careful you are, the better you talk, the more this kind of teacher will find you, which you can't escape, so the best way is to let them know that you are not so easy to mess with.
Naturally, they will not ask you to borrow money, in the end, many parents are afraid that their children will be in danger in their hands even if they lend them, and they are forced to do so, in fact, there is no need, because this will only let them know that you are good bullies, and it will become more serious about your children.
Take a stand directly
This kind of parent is a more bold personality, when the teacher borrows money from himself, if you have a good relationship, you can borrow, but the relationship is not good or it is better to directly state your position.
Because this helps the teacher not to threaten you with this matter, directly reject him, and show that he will not lend money to people who are not familiar with it, if you dare to use this matter to be bad for my children.
Then I will publicize you, you must know that now teachers are also divided into private schools and public schools, and private schools are generally found from various places and are unstable.
And the parents' money is also hard earned, so it is normal not to lend it to you, after all, it is very likely that you will resign with that money, which is not accurate.
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The best way for teachers and parents to get along
unfamiliar
Parents should always keep a distance from the teacher, because once you are close, then you will see a very bad side of each other, and at this time, you will be caught in personal feelings in the child's education.
Then many parents want to please the teacher, which is also unnecessary, because no teacher has the obligation to be good to your child for no reason, as long as they can be treated equally.
Don't think about taking good care of your children, you will make each other more and more difficult to get along with, so there must be a sense of strangeness.
There is a bottom line
Teachers and parents must respect each other and understand each other, if there is no bottom line, it will become ugly, and children will be treated differently in the class.
Therefore, it is still necessary to ensure that you have a bottom line, and the teacher must also have a bottom line, do not treat them differently because of a little favor, be a teacher, and remember your responsibilities.
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