We have to admit that most families are still mainly by the mother to bear the responsibility of the child's education, therefore, the mother's words and deeds have a very great impact on the growth of the child, it can be said that the quality of the mother, will determine the child's life.
This proposition is not without merit in the model in which most chinese families have mothers assuming the primary responsibility for educating their children. It is necessary to remind parents that the lack of paternal love in family education is not conducive to the overall development of children, and children who are estranged or isolated from their fathers, especially boys, often lack perseverance in personality, and have more than two points of milk.
A family, even if the poor family is surrounded by walls, as long as there is a kind, frugal, optimistic and tidy woman cooking, such a family is still the sanctuary of the soul and the source of the power of happiness.
The most important product of the mother's contribution to society is your child, and in addition to spontaneous love, the mother must learn the art of education, otherwise any educational reform will be in vain.
The image of the mother will affect everyone's life from beginning to end, and perhaps many people will not seriously think about and admit this issue, but this is indeed an undeniable truth!
A person grows up from childhood to adulthood, as long as his (her) mother accompanies their growth mileage, everything about the mother, including the image of the mother; the mother's principle of being a person; the mother's thoughts... Will unconsciously always affect their children, those children are you and me in life.
01
Strong Mother,
Teach children not to be cowardly in the face of difficulties.
In some people's thinking, women are regarded as representatives of weakness, and it seems that only men can be worthy of the word "strong". In fact, in real life, when you really encounter difficulties, you can not be afraid of hardships and hardships, and what you have been persevering is often those women who look weaker, and they are even stronger than men in some aspects.
Like Ms. Wang Guiquan (Liang Qichao's second wife), after Liang Qichao's death, she spent unimaginable years with nine children, and even during the turbulent years of the Cultural Revolution, she did not shake her strong faith, and after her death, Liang Sicheng and her siblings planted a "mother tree" next to her father's tomb to commemorate this great and strong mother.
02
Broad-minded mother,
Let the child learn to look to the future.
Women's bosoms have always been described by the literati as extremely narrow, and there is even a folk saying: a woman's hair is long and short. It seems that only the chest of a man in the world is a broad avenue, and the chest of a woman is only a sheep's gut path between the mountains. However, there are many women whose hearts make us admire, and it is really these women's hearts that let us understand how much a mother's broad chest can do to the child.
Tomiko Sato - (Guo Moruo's cohabitation woman in Japan) A woman whose name may not be known to modern people, after separating from Guo Moruo, she actually raised five underage children until she met Guo Moruo fifteen years later.
03
Kind Mother,
Let children know how to be compassionate.
The most terrible thing about human society is the cruelty of behavior and the indifference of the spirit, but none of us can deny that many people seem unable to escape these two tragic realities. Although sometimes these two conditions are caused by a "force majeure", in most cases they are created by man-made phenomena, that is, some people do not have a good mother from an early age, and their personality has been seriously distorted since then. Although the feeling of "compassion for heaven and compassion" has been formed by the cultivation and education of the day after tomorrow, it is still the foundation of kindness derived from the child's mother.
Bill Gates once said that what he got from his mother was "piety and kindness", and we can see the mark of the mother on Bill Gates's large donations to poor areas around the world.
04
Calm and composed mother,
Make your child learn to persevere.
In many literary works, or in tangible propaganda images, most of the time we see the mother when we encounter a disaster, either crying or desperately thinking of suicide, but in real life, we see that in today's indescribable scenes, a mother's calm and calm is enough to make people unforgettable for life.
When China's first lady, Mr. Wang Guangmei (a title that can be used by any respectable person), was criticized and insulted by the rebels at the 10,000-person conference, her admirable expression not only inspired her own children to persevere through ten years of inhuman years, but also set a brilliant example for us as a mother.
05
Cultivated mother,
Will create the quality of children.
The expression of the term "cultivation" in everyone is the quality of a person, and a person's excellent quality seems to be able to achieve his career. So even if cultivation is "built" after adulthood, in fact, most of the cultivation is still "watered" from the mother bit by bit.
Mothers respect the old and love children, children will naturally go up and down; mothers are frugal and moderate, children will naturally refuse luxury; mothers are polite, children will naturally be modest and not proud...
The famous conductor Tang Muhai's mother, Ms. Lan Weijie, attaches special importance to the cultivation of children, Tang Muhai has become a world-class conductor, not only determined by his artistic achievements, Westerners appreciate Tang Muhai's elegant cultivation and noble qualities, they think that these must come from Ms. Lan Weijie's influence on children.
06
The mother of a cultural veteran,
It will affect the child's deep thinking.
A cultured mother will definitely affect the child's thinking, and if it is a culturally senior mother, it seems to be more able to influence the child's deep thinking, just like a child who cannot walk slowly learns to walk under the guidance of adults hand in hand. Cultured mothers are in their lives every day from the day their children are born, influencing their children little by little, making them put an end to vulgarity; keeping them away from simplicity; letting them know the profound...
The famous writer Jin Yong once said that his inner exploration of the characters in the novel is influenced by the culture of his mother. Jin Yong's mother, Xu Lu, was Xu Zhimo's aunt, who attended high school at that time and could write beautiful water pens.
Everyone's mother is influencing their children with their own images, although the mothers of celebrities are cited here, which does not mean that we do not pay attention to ordinary mothers, but the images of mothers cited here are known and familiar, so they have a certain representativeness.
In fact, even our own mothers will have these beautiful personality traits and spiritual qualities, and the only difference is that only we know it.
Source: Family Style