"Can you please hurry up and let you grind and chirp every day, and annoy me to death." Early in the morning, before he left the house, he heard the next door neighbor shouting at his children to hurry up and go to school, in fact, this scene happens every morning.
We can often hear this parent complain that his child is too abrasive, especially if the parent is an acute child, the child is procrastinating, and he is almost going to be mad by the various behaviors of his children.
Indeed, there are countless such examples in our lives. Many parents will argue with their children countless times because of this matter, and complain that their children are too procrastinating, in fact, parents scold too much, it is better to do these three things well.
First, turn the initiative into passivity
"Every morning when my child can't scream, the child's mother is particularly impatient, and I am not in a hurry at all, I should eat and drink, and when the time comes, the child is naturally anxious, then the child will learn a lesson." A parent once shared with me the experience of procrastination.
In his understanding, the child is too inky, in fact, the main reason is that they are still unaware of the urgency of their task, in this state, if the parents blindly urge, the child is actually willing to correct, if the parents because of this matter and the child conflict, but also affect the relationship and harmony between parents and children.
Therefore, if parents rely on dissuasion and dissuasion and dissuasion and dissuasion, they can teach them a long lesson by letting them eat a long and wise education method. If the child can't get up in the morning, the parents urge several times still do not listen, parents can not delay important things under the premise, let him lie in bed, wait for the time to slowly pass things are more urgent, the child can naturally experience the regret of insufficient time, with such a lesson, the child naturally knows how to plan time later.
Second, cultivate children's sense of independence, so that children learn to be responsible for what they do
Some parents always like to give their children everything, for example, even if they are almost late, the child has not yet packed up, parents are very anxious to pack their children's luggage, but as everyone knows, parents blindly spoil their children and indulge their behavior, which will only make them rely on their parents in later life.
If one day parents forget to remind their children that their children have missed something important, they will also blame this negligence on the parents, but they will not find their own faults. This is the parents blindly giving their children everything and not letting the children bear the consequences of their own mistakes independently.
In fact, parents do not need to be particularly nervous about their children's affairs, and they must believe that their children already have the ability to deal with problems on their own.
Third, cultivate children's concept of time as soon as possible
If you want your child to do things without procrastination, parents should pay attention to cultivating their children's concept of time from a young age. Most children are procrastinating, doing everything slowly mentality, parents can give their children a task within the specified time, or plan for the next week, within a month, do a good time planning table.
After making a detailed planning list, parents carefully supervise the implementation of each task of the child, in order to urge the child's task to be completed as soon as possible, parents should let the child's plan list be detailed and specific.
In addition, in order to make the child more motivated and durable to complete this task, parents can give their children encouragement and support at the right time.
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