Hope son Jackie Chan, hope daughter into phoenix, is the wish of every parent, pinning on the hope of the whole family, with hard work to provide for children to go to school, even if the parents are more tired, as long as the child can achieve excellent results, can be admitted to a famous school, all this is worth it.
It's just that when some parents educate their children, the way is too impatient, and it is inevitable that the children will be disgusted and even disgusted. Maybe sitting down and communicating can solve the problem, but parents are in a hurry to go to work and can't continue to communicate with their children, which leads to tragedy.
Children are still young, they can't solve problems alone, they can't communicate with their parents, when emotions occupy reason, it's easy to solve problems in extreme ways, or emotional out-of-control collapse and crying, or running away from home to protest with actions, or life...
15-year-old Xiaolan (pseudonym) is young and should have studied hard and achieved excellent results. But who could have imagined that at noon on February 14, her mother would tear off a few pieces of homework and leave hurtful words, so she went out to work, leaving Xiaolan alone at home.
In the afternoon, Xiaolan did not have any abnormalities, and his father also urged him to write his homework seriously, and he completed all his winter vacation homework in the evening, and he went to sleep after resting. 15 School opened, and after eating at noon, he walked to the school with his school bag on his back, which could be reached in 20 minutes.
However, Xiaolan did not go to school on time, and the teacher worried about the safety of the child, so he urgently contacted his family. Parents call Xiaolan's mobile phone, because the shutdown can not get in touch, the son's school bag is just leaning outside the door, taking the elevator downstairs alone, and then the parents choose to call the police.
Surveillance shows that Xiaolan took a bus in the afternoon, came to Shapingba, took a bus to Yuzhong District, appeared near the East Water Gate, and appeared once near the thirteenth pier in Yuzhong District at about 8 p.m. that night, in addition to the loss of Xiaolan's figure in the monitoring.
Xiaolan's parents have no bad thoughts, seeing that they are about to start school, the winter vacation homework has not been written, after arriving at school, they are criticized and punished, and even the teacher will be named in the parent group, the mother is in a hurry to go to work and say a few words, tearing off several pieces of the child's homework.
"Do you still want to go to school?" If you don't want to go to school, you can go out and experience life to try "Children can't complete winter vacation homework, it is indeed not a minority, or the night before the start of school, or to learn from classmates, generally will find a way to complete homework, parents do not need to pay too much attention.
Xiaolan is only 15 years old this year, and she speaks less at home, even if she is criticized by her mother and tears up her homework, there is no sign of running away from home. This time he left with only a few hundred yuan, and there were some red envelopes sent by relatives in WeChat, but the mobile phone could not be contacted.
Now the mother is particularly worried about the safety of the child, I hope that Xiaolan can go home safely, and feel very sorry for her behavior, if you come again, you will definitely not be so impulsive, will discuss with the child well, and seriously communicate some problems.
At that time, Xiaolan left, wearing black glasses, wearing a blue-black coat, army green slacks, black sneakers, Xiaolan ran away from home this time, it was indeed unexpected, it may be that her mother's behavior and language were too extreme, hurting Xiaolan's heart.
Can't say that the mother is too impulsive, nor can it be said that Xiaolan's personality is too fragile, but there is a problem when the two communicate, and the mother hopes that the child will complete the homework as soon as possible, after all, the next day will officially start school, but at that time, Xiaolan was playing with the mobile phone, and the mother was really helpless.
If I could speak calmly at that time, would this still happen? Definitely not. Children also have their own big calculations, if the management is too strict, it is inevitable that the children will be bored, the light is unwilling to communicate with the parents, the heavy is to run away from home so that the parents can not find themselves.
Xiao Lan went out with money and a mobile phone this time, there should be no accidents, just angry with her mother. They all say that "a good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June", perhaps the mother has no heart, but Xiaolan listened to the intention and made such a decision.
Parents' education methods are very important, some children can not manage can not say, because usually too doting, did not develop good habits, if you can seriously educate from an early age, complete the task on time, develop good learning habits, will it still be like this? Not at all.
Contradictions are inevitable, but sometimes the way to solve them is not right, it will only become bigger and bigger and unable to mediate, if the two sides can communicate calmly, or one party can take the initiative to admit mistakes, the contradiction will naturally be resolved. It's just that some parents don't understand and don't know how to discipline their children.
15-year-old children are young and do not understand some things, but the mother has long been an adult, should not be emotional, tearing the child's homework, which is indeed a bit unreasonable. I only hope that when educating children, we can calmly deal with problems and not be controlled rationally by emotions.
Everyone gathered firewood and the flame was high, hoping that those who had key clues could contact the police or Xiaolan's parents as soon as possible so that the children could return home safely. After all, Xiaolan is the hope of the whole family, nothing can happen, and her mother has regretted it very much, hoping that Xiaolan can go home sooner.