However, for many parents, the beginning of the school is not so easy, watching the baby carry the school bag for the first time into the kindergarten, the heart is full of 360 degrees of unladending anxiety:
8:30
Is the baby still crying?
Should I go inside and sneak a peek?
Can the teacher take care of him?
Or take it home today and send it tomorrow...
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9:30
What is the baby doing?
Do you tell your teacher to go to the bathroom?
Have you found a little friend to play with?
Will you be bullied?
10:30
Do you listen to your teacher when you go outdoors?
Will you run wild and bump into someone else or yourself?
Do you sweat a lot?
Will the teacher help with the change of clothes in time?
11:30
How was lunch?
Are there any picky eaters?
Do you want a teacher to feed?
Have you had enough to eat?
12:30
Do you sleep in a kindergarten bed?
Ever missed Mom?
Will you cry again?
The teacher will comfort him, right?
13:30
Is the baby asleep?
Why hasn't the teacher replied to the message?
Why is there no movement in the class group?
I want to call the teacher!
14:30
Is the baby up?
Is there bedwetting?
Will the shoes be worn backwards?
The teacher will help get dressed, right?
15:30
Did baby poop today?
Thirsty know to drink water?
Why hasn't it been to the end of school?
I'll be the first to pick him up later!"
16:30
Baby, come into my arms!!!
After receiving the baby, Bao Dad and Bao Mom were very eager to ask about the situation of the child in this day. However, the teacher may only say in a hurry: "XX mother, you are coming!" Today she behaved very well and slept soundly during her nap. We'll see you tomorrow! As a result, the parents muttered in their hearts: "So perfunctory!" Didn't the teacher care much about my children? ”
If you really think so, then Xiaobian will have to hold an 800 decibel horn to scream for the teachers!
Because this is how kindergarten teachers spend this day
8:00
Receiving the new students who came to the kindergarten one after another, half coaxing, half cheating, half pulling and half pulling from the hands of the parents, they took the baby over. Sitting on one leg and one in his arms, the tear marks on his shoulders and the snot marks on his chest were connected.
Singing, telling stories, playing games... Find ways to attract children's attention, stabilize their emotions, but also observe the needs of each child, wipe their nose, wipe tears, ask for hugs, pee, find toys... Hate can't give birth to three heads, six arms, four eyes, and eight ears!
11:00
After the meal, another round of "lively play": the babies eat to be fed, crying to find their mothers, crying and eating and vomiting, and the soup spilled on the table, on the ground, and on the body... The Shangxian Calendar is no more than that
12:00
Put clean clothes on your dirty children, organize bedtime walks, and go to the toilet. The first time I took a nap in the kindergarten, it was common for the children to "cry collectively" in bed, and the teacher could only continue to perform eighteen martial arts to soothe emotions and coax sleep.
13:00
Finally restored the precious calm, after grasping two mouthfuls of cold meals, it is necessary to return to the dormitory to take care of the children's nap, while suppressing the tiredness of summarizing the children's performance in the morning, so as to communicate with parents after school. When you encounter a baby who can't sleep, you should also take it with you to avoid affecting other people's sleep.
Dress and wear shoes for the children one by one, comb the girls' hair, and change the wet beds in time.
16:00
Before school, confirm that each child is emotionally stable and in good physical health, and at the same time organize the language: wait and talk to Xixi's mother about eating less lunch, talk to Yaoyao's grandmother about wet pants, and Mingming's parents say that the child adapts well...
17:30
Finally, the day of "war" is over, and the teachers have only one wish at this time - I want to be quiet! However, the "revolution" is not over, there are still a bunch of work summaries, observation records that need to be completed, and the situation of individual children also needs to be called and parents to explain specifically.
Dear parents and friends, do you understand now? On this day, the teacher spent all his energy on coaxing the baby, holding the baby, taking care of the baby, when you pick up the child, they may only say a simple few words, but every word is a condensed essence, the aspects not mentioned show that the child adapts well, no special circumstances occur, do not need to worry too much about Oh!
In order to give the children a perfect impression of the beginning of the school, the kindergarten teacher always carries a sweet smile and works hard in his work. What can parents do to help teachers grow up healthier, more confident and happier? The following 5 sentences, please parents must remember:
1
Be a little more considerate and don't ask for "special" care
"Teacher, Duo Duo especially likes to cry, please take care of it more!"
"Teacher, I recently had a cold every day, please pay more attention to it!"
……
As a parent, it is common for people to hope that their children will pay more attention, but if too many unreasonable requests are made, it will not only add a burden to the teacher, but also hinder the communication of the home. In the eyes of parents, there is only one child, but in the eyes of the teacher, there are twenty or thirty children in the class, which need to be treated fairly and justly, and additional requests will disrupt the normal work order of the teacher and are not conducive to the development of children's abilities.
2
More respect, do not use the teacher as a "nanny"
Teacher, Chenchen didn't have a today, please remember to supervise him!
"Teacher, Jingjing didn't drink water in the morning, you let her drink more later!"
Children enter kindergarten in order to get out of the small circle of the family and go to a new environment to learn how to play, make friends, and take care of themselves, in this process, the teacher is not a nanny, but a guide. Parents must learn to let go at the right time, do not worry too much about the child's daily life, eating and drinking Lasa, and believe in the professionalism of kindergarten teachers, they will be able to ensure the health and safety of the baby.
3
More trust, face the "controversy" correctly
"Children always don't have enough to eat in kindergarten, is it not a bad food?"
"The baby often bumps and bumps, is it because the teacher didn't take good care of it?"
Some parents have doubts about their children's situation in the kindergarten, and without investigation, they question the teacher loudly in public, or denounce the teacher in the WeChat group, which will make the teacher who really loves the child chill, and may also make the child disgusted with the kindergarten. Teachers should accept the supervision of parents, but when problems arise, parents should calmly communicate with teachers, find out the real reasons, and jointly discuss and solve problems.
4
Be more affirmative, don't skimp on words of praise
"The child has recently learned a lot of new nursery rhymes, thanks to the teacher!"
"This parent-teacher conference was awesome and we learned a lot!"
Parents' recognition and encouragement is the motivation for teachers to stick to their posts, only parents respect teachers, children can emotionally love them, teachers and students will get along more harmoniously. So, when you see the hard work of the teacher, feel the child's progress, or learn professional parenting knowledge from the teacher, please do not skimp on praise, and say thank you from the bottom of your heart.
5
Cooperate more and actively support the work of teachers
"We must also arrange the children's lives according to the kindergarten schedule on weekends!"
"I have taken a good leave of absence in advance, and the parents of the children will definitely arrive on time!"
Every year in the school season, the kindergarten "wow" sound, the teachers are as busy as "fighting", at this time the cooperation of parents is undoubtedly a great help for teachers. In the child's education, home, the garden is indispensable, many work can only achieve 100% effectiveness if they cooperate with each other, parents actively cooperate with the teacher's work, not only can narrow the distance between the home, but also help the child's learning and progress.
Finally, I sincerely wish all children a healthy and happy growth in the new semester, and also ask parents to have more respect and trust for teachers, more tolerance and understanding. The best education must be created by parents and teachers for children together!
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