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Yu Gakuen
On the first day of marriage, what are the customs in the region where everyone is located?
Ms. Fan, who married into Lianyungang, was called up from bed by her mother-in-law to sweep the floor on this day.
Unexpectedly, in the process of sweeping the floor, it was found that the ground was covered with coins and banknotes, some 10 yuan and 100 yuan banknotes, a total of more than 900 yuan.
Sweeping the floor on the first day of a new marriage is a local custom. Because the relationship with the mother-in-law is relatively good, the mother-in-law puts more money, and Ms. Fan laughed and said that she likes this custom.
Some netizens said that on the first day after marriage, let the new daughter-in-law sweep the floor in the marriage room, which means that the new couple "collects wealth" and hopes that the new family can "roll in the future".
Similarly, some netizens believe that this is a relatively beautiful custom, which means that the daily care of small families in the future is handed over to the small two, and the second means that hard work can obtain the income of labor.
However, since the good meaning of blessing is the small two, why not shout to the son and daughter-in-law to get up and sweep the floor together?
Tracing back to the origins of this custom, it is not impossible to say that it is a discipline for women.
So, someone feels uncomfortable at the first time —
"Want to give me money to show the elders' love for me, blessings, big New Year's Day, wrap it in a red envelope to give it to me, let me lie on the ground and sweep out, who is this insulting?" 」
"This custom is a process of domestication of women, and there is no essential difference between getting up every day to give morning tea to the mother-in-law."
More netizens said bluntly: A little favor treats people as donkeys, and the hard days are behind.
However, some traditional customs continue to this day, in fact, many individual concepts have changed -
The mother-in-law who lets the daughter-in-law get up and sweep the floor may not have malicious intentions, nor does she have the idea of domesticating the daughter-in-law, but simply continues the tradition, gives blessings to the newcomer, and lets the newcomer please a good head.
There are also many new marriage customs, which also have a beautiful meaning.
In some areas, the custom of the first day after marriage is to return to the mother's house, the groom sees the father-in-law and mother-in-law, and changes his mouth to father and mother, which means that the bride's parents can see the happy marriage between the two.
It is said that the mother's family in Shanxi also pays special attention to the daughter who is married, and on the third day after marriage, the woman's parents will bring gifts to visit their daughter, called "warm daughter", which means to see if the daughter is dressed well and eats well.
There are also Minnan netizens who say that the local marriage should be cut with bamboo leaves and lead pieces, and the Lead and "Yuan" in Minnan dialect are homophonous. On the day of the wedding, the daughter goes out, the daughter-in-law enters the door, and the relatives of the three sisters and six wives use these to withdraw from the bride and groom, which means to spread the fate and make a good person.
The so-called inheritance should take its essence and remove its dross.
Therefore, many beautiful customs continue to this day, and also reflect the blessings of the families of both sides to the newcomer, full of ritual and happiness.
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