Summer is the season for cold drinks, and it is not too comfortable to eat a bite of cold ice cream on a hot summer day, and adults still like this, and children certainly like it. But parents always feel that it is not good for children to eat too cold food, and they are very entangled in whether to give their children cold drinks.
In fact, children over the age of three are close to adults, can eat adult food, for cold drink parents do not blindly prohibit, but also can not let go, depending on the situation to the child to eat some is no problem at all.
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For many people, cold drinks are the "standard" in summer
Bao Ma Xiao Yang saw a parent in the Bao Ma Group to share that children often eat ice cream will appear obese and dental caries, so in order for the child to grow more smoothly, Xiao Yang decided not to buy cold drinks at home in the summer, so that the child will not want to eat if he can't see it.
However, she ignored that the cold drink will "flood" every family in the summer, once Xiao Yang took the child to a friend's house, the friend took out ice cream to his own child and Xiao Yang's child, Xiao Yang decisively refused for the child, and then the child actually went to rob others, which made Xiao Yang embarrassed.
In fact, Xiao Yang is not a minority of parents, many parents are like this, for various reasons, always restrict children from eating cold drinks, or simply use coaxing or cheating to prevent them from eating, resulting in children's curiosity about this food continues to expand.
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Children who are allowed to eat cold drinks from an early age and children who have always been restricted by their parents are actually more obviously different the more they grow up
Children who have been satisfied with the requirements of eating cold drinks by their parents since childhood and children who have been restricted from eating cold drinks have different satisfactions in the process of growing up, so there is a gap between the two in four aspects when they grow up.
[Aspect 1]: Whether childhood memories have color
When we grow up, we always mention the memories of childhood, childhood memories are always indispensable to eat, before colleagues also discussed what kinds of ice cream they had when they were young, and dug out a lot of ice cream with a sense of age.
In fact, the things that children are exposed to from childhood are valuable assets for the future, and eating is also an important part of childhood, and those children who are not restricted are much more colorful than children who are often restricted by various restrictions.
[Aspect 2]: Will there be a "compensatory psychology" involved in this regard in the future?
Children have their own unique needs at each stage, if the parents meet them in time, then the child's subsequent needs for this aspect are not so strong, but if the parents have many restrictions, then the child will begin to seek "compensation" and balance their hearts.
Children from childhood by the parents to meet the desire to eat cold drinks, children will maintain a normal heart for cold drinks, if the parents from childhood to restrict children to eat cold drinks, until the child grows up will be a little "crazy" about cold drinks, in order to make up for their own unsatisfied psychology when they were young.
[Aspect 3]: There is a difference in appetite and weight
Children's body is relatively weak, coupled with ice cream ice cream and other cold drinks calories, sugar content are very high, although children do not eat much, but also will cause discomfort, so many children will eat cold drinks will lose appetite, become less like to eat.
In addition, this high-sugar, high-calorie food in cold drinks will have a risk of becoming fat for children, and this fat is not healthy, which will affect the child's normal body metabolism, and the child's physical development will also be affected.
[Aspect 4]: There are differences in intimate relationships with parents
When children are young, most of them like to rely on their parents, and every move of the parents affects the child's heart, and whether the parents meet the child's request is the proof of whether the parents love themselves.
Parents often impose cold drink restrictions on their children without explanation, and children will feel that their parents do not care about their own requests, thus denying their parents' love for themselves, and their dependence on their parents will be reduced when they grow up, and the intimacy between children and parents will be relatively high.
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Cold drinks are not a "flood beast", and parents are moderately satisfied and properly rejected
Although the cold drink itself is not beneficial to the child's body, parents should not talk about the discoloration of "cold drink", but should also moderately satisfy the child, the key is when to eat, how much to eat the problem.
● How to meet in moderation?
The so-called moderate satisfaction, is to control the amount of cold drinks that children eat, can not let children eat unrestrained, parents can make three chapters with their children in advance, set the time to eat cold drinks, and the amount of cold drinks each time.
In this way, the child has a psychological preparation in advance, and when he wants to eat cold drinks, he will carry out self-control, which not only protects the child's health, but also cultivates the child's awareness of abiding by the rules.
●What is proper rejection?
Many parents have adopted a "one-size-fits-all" policy for their children to eat cold drinks, that is, they do not let their children eat, and even sometimes in order to prevent their children from eating cold drinks, they are coaxed and deceived, resulting in a lack of trust in the hearts of parents in their children.
In fact, parents carefully analyze the reasons why they can't eat cold drinks with their children, reason with their children, children can understand, and they will not hurt their children because of this, and parents can also agree with their children when they can eat after weighing, so that children can be satisfied.
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Writes at the end:
Whether it is eating cold drinks or doing something, many times children are out of curiosity, and parents should not suppress their children's curiosity at any time, the more they want to suppress, the more curious the child will be, the more they want to do those behaviors that are prevented.
Parents should try to give their children the opportunity to try within their control, so that their curiosity can be satisfied, so that children's cognition and tolerance of things will be improved, and they can better liberate their nature.