Under the difference in the thinking of men and women, not only the views on the problem are different, but there are also differences in emotional investment and needs, and women seem to be destined to be more vulnerable to some extent, because the demand is large, and inadvertently invest more.
As a woman, you must understand that the speed at which you come out in the face of lost love also affects the future happiness index. If you can't properly control your emotions to improve your life, consume youth and mental strength, even if you meet someone worthy one day, you will use up all your love ability.
So when one day men suddenly don't love themselves, and women really read these truths, then you are the winner of this relationship, and even life, and there will be a better future and lovers waiting for you in front.
Love is never the most important thing for a man, you do not have irreplaceable value, and it is normal that he does not love you
Where is the point of women's pain after a breakup?
I felt that without him, I would never find such a good person again
Sunk cost effect, investing too much unrecoverable feelings, youth, and economy, so unusually unwilling.
Drilling the horns, I am so good to him, why is he so desperate for me? He loved me so much, so sincerely, how did he become like this now? He said yes, why didn't he keep his promise?
In recent years, the most popular saying on the Internet: men are big pig trotters
Women should understand that love is always for women to come into being, in the world of men, love has never been the focus of their lives, women and feelings are only part of life. The sacrificial effort you think of yourself, in the eyes of men, part of the behavior is superfluous.
In ancient times, men's responsibility was to hunt and fight, to protect their own race, and with the changes of the times, career survival was still the goal pursued by men. In ancient times, it was always exquisite that the soldier died for the confidant, and the woman was pleasing to herself, so it can be seen that men may give their lives when they love to the extreme, but it is difficult to pay attention to the appearance and inner needs like women.
Women are delicate and need spiritual communication. A relationship without love is fatal to a woman, full of loneliness and hopelessness, but for men, it is better to have love, and no love is actually not a fatal problem.
Man is more concerned about the real thing of life, he needs one is mature and stable to be able to become his own partner to help, at first good for you, more from the relationship in the state of moon halo, coupled with the instinctive reaction caused by hormones, but the last to leave, may be found that you and the expectations are different, may also be the run-in feel that you are really inappropriate, and even found irreconcilable contradictions and conflicts, even if it is different, his departure is a deliberate decision.
Love is never all a man, nor is it because a woman binds his steps, and his choice to leave does not mean that you are not good enough, but at the moment he needs to be more matched with his own people, to live the days of demand, he thinks only that his life is relatively easier, better, love is not love, never the only factor he considers, because love for rational men, is not their only or focus on the goal of pursuit.
No love, humble prayer does not return pity
Many girls will have an irrational act in the face of love leaving, that is, humble gestures and even self-harm behaviors that try to make men turn back with heartache.
Reluctance is the performance of the weaker party, and the way you humblely pray for affection is nothing more than self-deception, like self-torture like a one-man show. Whether he just doesn't love you, or loves someone else, if he doesn't love, he doesn't love, no matter how humble you are, it won't help, and the appearance of stalking can only make the other party more disgusted and want to run away.
Don't put all your sustenance on a man, and don't think that as long as you are miserable enough and pitiful enough, he will turn back because of a momentary softness. Just like the point of view mentioned in the book "Women's Living Method", after all, the most embarrassing thing in the world is to overestimate yourself, when you ignore me, I will never bother you, when you snub me, I will slowly snub you, want to be happy, want to be loved, must first learn to live their own appearance, and then one day in the future, let the departing ex regret his choice.
Love is very beautiful, but it is not all about life, don't continue to waste the rest of your life for the departure of an unworthy person
Compared with men, women are too easy to expect too much about love, and they will unconsciously think of love too beautifully, so when the male protagonist suddenly leaves, it is inevitable to be shocked.
Women, you must understand that although love is beautiful, it must not be and resolutely can not let it become the whole of your life, family and friendship, career, life, too many important things need us to do, too much joy and unknown in life waiting for us to feel and open up.
A man who really respects and cares about you will not say and go, and a man who does not care so much about you is still so painful to do anything.
Women are in love with their ears, and it is easy to be confused by sweet words and sea oaths, but you must know that it is always easier to talk about love than to move the truth in the relationship between the sexes.
No matter how beautiful it sounds, it is better to be really careful. Now that he has made his choice, remember not to spend the rest of his time in the future, and to remember a dream that will never wake up again.
This life of a person is not calculated to be 30,000, pinch your fingers, and have been consumed for so long with this person who does not cherish himself, and the future continuation is not superimposed on his own losses and injuries.