Hello everyone, I'm the bragging Oreo.
A few days ago, a piece of news made countless netizens explode in an instant.
Here's the thing.
In Xinyang, Henan Province, a woman returned from outside and found her home in a mess.
Opening her room made her collapse in an instant.
Snacks and garbage are scattered everywhere.
However, the tragedy of the scene is far more than that.
She needs to face more than just cleaning
——Her cosmetics encountered an unprecedented "catastrophe".
Liquid foundation, squeezed everywhere.
Powder, which is directly mashed.
Lipstick, used as a paintbrush, is full of its figure...
Almost all of the above are big-name cosmetics with high prices.
And such "masterpieces" are from the hands of two boys from relatives.
Source: @Star Video
At the time, her mother was cooking.
The children of relatives are thus freed up.
Netizens watched the video and said that their blood pressure soared:
"I have a sense of substitution, and I have begun to get angry."
"I had a heart attack when I watched it."
It is hard to imagine how the woman suppressed the anger in her heart and recorded the video.
Later, the woman filmed the "crime scene" and sent it to the other parent.
But all she got was a sentence from her relatives:
"The child has been seriously criticized."
There was no mention of compensation at all.
Mom also because of the big New Year's Day, persuade herself to forget it.
The losses were heavy, but she could only consider herself unlucky and pay for the failure of other people's family education.
The year is approaching, bear child, it is really a frightening existence.
They are extremely destructive and have a very weak capacity to take responsibility.
However, what is more frightening than bear children is the parents behind the irresponsibility.
"Loss" is left unchecked in the present.
More "lost" in the usual time without a good education.
They acquiesce in the child's visit to someone else's home, and they can whimsically flip or even spoil other people's things.
Even if the child makes a mistake, he only prevaricates on the phone with "criticized education" to draw a distorted end to the child's fault.
I have to say that it is really simple to abolish a child.
Some time ago, I brushed a short video that made people think strange.
A pair of siblings entered the elevator, and the 11-year-old brother saw no one around.
So, a bold idea came up
- Do "stretching" in the elevator.
The boy supported the wall with both hands and then put his foot on the elevator door.
At this time, he had not yet had time to show "real technology" in front of his sister.
The safety door on the inside of the elevator suddenly fell off.
Fortunately, not long after the accident, the child was rescued.
Fortunately, they were not standing near the elevator door and did not fall into the elevator shaft.
A false alarm, but the elevator was badly damaged.
After the incident, the property came to the door to negotiate the issue of compensation.
However, at this moment, a more confusing scene appeared than the operation of the bear child in the elevator.
At the beginning, the child's mother was in the property group to justify her son's "crime":
"The neighbors are watching this video, the son's leg has not been straightened, before he can exert himself, the door explodes, is this elevator made of paper?"
"I have consulted a friend, it is the quality of the elevator, it has nothing to do with the child."
In her subconscious, perhaps as long as she does not talk about the responsibility of her children, she does not need compensation.
In order to make her excuse sound more grandiose, she turned her words sharply and tried to glorify her son's fault:
"If I had to say that the property had to thank my son, if he hadn't touched it, something might have happened in the process of using it, it was terrible."
When she realized that her words could not stand at all, she played another "poor card":
"Because of this matter, he did not sleep for two days, and the two children were not lightly frightened, the son himself was very naughty, and he was not afraid of the sky, this time he was scared, and he took the initiative to wash the dishes."
Perhaps this mother, in order to avoid compensation, made excuses for her son.
But she ignored that her children were the age at which they had established the Three Views.
She also missed out on a very good educational opportunity.
It is difficult to predict how outrageous things this bold child will do in the future under the protection of his mother who does not distinguish between right and wrong.
Perhaps this mother is to let her children learn their "good qualities".
As long as you try to find excuses, there is no responsibility that cannot be shirked.
She is to teach the child a means of dealing with problems that he thinks is very clever.
Children should learn: as long as they take advantage of society, they will not suffer losses.
With such parents, no matter how many setbacks the child suffers, he will not be able to gain a point of insight.
The canal is crooked, and the water is bound to be impossible to go down directly.
Bear child incidents have always been common in this society.
Because there is always someone standing behind them, supporting them, fulfilling their misdeeds.
And the excuses that parents find for them, the reasons they dig, will become inferior oil, filling up the car carrying their children until the end of the road.
In a small area in Guangdong, there are four children playing happily in it.
Because of their "toys", very expensive.
They used other people's cars parked in the neighborhood as drawing boards, picked up sharp tools and swiped them on the body.
The scene is very "spectacular"
More than 30 vehicles were scratched all over the body.
The warranty costs a total of more than 1.5 million yuan, because there are many luxury cars such as BMW, Lincoln, and Mercedes-Benz.
I thought it was just an inadvertent act by four young and ignorant children.
However, they are already in their teens.
Logically, at such an age, one should not be so ignorant and ignorant.
But after reading the parents' reactions, I was not at all surprised by the four children's approach.
Four children, from one large family and two small families, are cousins and cousins.
When their parents learned of their children's evil deeds, they did not come out to apologize and compensate.
Instead, he pretended to be confused, ignored this matter, and did not ask.
When a child makes a mistake, it may be a good time for parents to educate.
Even if you haven't set a good example for your child before, you can make up for it by letting your child take responsibility.
But they only want to blindly shirk, with protection and disregard, to show their "calf protection heart".
But I don't know that I am passing on very wrong values to my children.
It is completely out of consideration how important it is for children to teach them measure, upbringing, respect, property rights and responsibility.
I once read the rules summarized by an education expert:
Children who like to fight must have a parent who likes to do it.
Children who are accustomed to shirking responsibility must have a parent behind them who escapes from things.
A child who is brutal and vulgar, full of dirty words, must have an unguarded parent behind him.
……
Parents and children behave like a mirror.
The child's every move is either imitated by the parents or done with the acquiescence of the parents.
In fact, the occurrence of a bear child incident, the unfortunate will never only be the victim of the incident, but also the bear child.
Because they have an extremely irresponsible parent.
In making mistakes again and again, they are not corrected.
In the face of time and time again, it was curbed by the parents' protection, connivance, and coddling.
Under the umbrella of their parents, they seem to have avoided the trouble again and again.
In the greenhouse, Shun sui grew up.
But they overlooked:
That umbrella can only cover a little rain and take a ride for yourself.
And the flowers in the greenhouse are vulnerable after all.
January 23, Taizhou, Zhejiang.
A mother made a good demonstration of how to educate a "bear child".
Faced with the behavior of children who always like to throw garbage on the roof but do not change, she decided to teach him a lesson.
She took out a very thick rope, tied her son at one end, and held it tightly with her hands at the other.
Then take his son out of the window, give him a sack, and let him pick up all the garbage on the roof.
It was cold that day.
My son was shivering with cold.
Although the rope is thick, there is still a certain danger in letting his son pick up the garbage on the roof.
In the face of these concerns, the mother did not change her mind about educating her children.
It wasn't until her son had cleaned up all the garbage that she pulled him up.
This matter has aroused heated discussion among netizens.
Some people think that it is not necessary to make a fuss and make a big fuss.
Some people praise this way of homeschooling.
Mizuki Jun stationed the latter.
Children make mistakes, and parents should not only do oral education, let alone blindly favoritism.
Instead, give them a "safety rope" and let the children take responsibility for their own practical actions within the scope of their ability.
Those parents who are truly qualified never use their young age as an excuse, nor do they use small things as a reason.
Instead, it teaches children what they can and cannot do before and after they make mistakes.
As Qian Wenzhong, a professor at Fudan University, said:
"Today, children can't say, scold, can't hit, can't even look at each other.
Tomorrow, maybe he will be able to pick up a knife and kill people. ”
Families without rules are both a childhood paradise and an exit to hell for children.
I agree with the saying: "The biggest deception of education is to release the nature of children." ”
Parents' boundless indulgence of their children will lead them to cross moral red lines and step into the minefield of the law.
Setting a bottom line and setting rules for children is the vision of parents.
Light up "likes" and "forwards", may more children be lucky enough to meet reasonable parents and get correct guidance at an age when they do not understand good and evil and cannot distinguish between right and wrong.
May there be no bear children in the new year.