Now they all advocate scientific parenting, and many medical staff do not approve of the "urine method" that has been handed down for thousands of years, and they also discourage the "new urine method" that has quietly spread.
According to the advice of medical staff, the old way of urinating in the past can easily affect the child's hip and spine development. Today's "new method of urinating" can also cause harm to children. For example, the child's self-urination time is disordered, and even long-term bedwetting, prolapse, etc.
However, the reality is that no amount of advice from medical staff is as enthusiastic as parents. Especially some bao moms, a person with a baby is very tired, in order to save trouble, some bao mom actually like to use the "new urine method", let the baby urinate in a fixed period of time. This is done daily, and the cycle repeats.
Three-child mothers "take shortcuts" and use the "new urine method" for the baby to be triumphant: really save diapers and not wet!
Xiaozhou is already a three-child mother, and she has already had some experience in taking the baby. After giving birth to the baby this time, the boat with the baby is very economical, put on the clothes of the second treasure of the big treasure to the three children, and give the three children the amount of diapers to not wet, and carefully calculate to go home.
The boat has a habit of giving the child regular peeing at three o'clock in the afternoon, nine o'clock in the evening, and six o'clock in the morning. Xiao Zhou felt that during these three time periods, if the child could get used to developing a biological clock, he would urinate and defecate at the point. Then, you can save a lot of things, neither do you have to get up the night tube baby to change the diaper, nor do you have to worry about the baby peeing pants in the daytime.
However, Bao Ma's boat did not calculate what accidents would happen. Initially, the child is very powerful, and after a stage of training, he can indeed urinate out when urinating regularly. Moreover, the boat calculated that this saved three packs of diaper money a month.
However, one day in the second month, XiaoZhou got up early to change the baby's diapers, but accidentally found that the baby 'urine blood', diapers are not wet and bloody. Moreover, for a long time to pee for the baby, the child is crying, not honest, kicking and kicking, very painful look. This frightened the boat, and immediately took the baby to the hospital for examination. As a result, the doctor told that it was the baby who held urine back to the bladder, causing a urinary tract infection, which may be that the child has urinary pain, so he is not willing to cooperate with the urine.
Finally, Xiao Zhou realized that "taking a shortcut" to give the baby urine is not a good thing, and the new urine method is not suitable for children. Xiao Zhou also did not feel that saving money was more important than the health of the child. Xiao Zhou completely took it, no longer complained that she was tired, she was very cooperative with the doctor's instructions, and did not use the new urine method for the baby. The boat continues to give the baby a diaper not to wet, and when the baby has the intention to urinate, she is allowed to urinate, and from time to time according to the performance of the baby to accompany the baby to urinate.
The "new type of urine" is harmful, and these two kinds of harms must be known to baoma
Before, many mothers, like XiaoZhou, did not realize that the new method of urinating would cause harm to children, and thought that this was a "shortcut" that was quietly popular! However, when the harm of the new type of urine is becoming more and more revealed, more and more people realize that the harm of this method to children is really very great.
There are two common hazards of the new urine method:
Disorders of spontaneous urination can cause your child to develop symptoms such as frequent urination
The urethral sphincter in young children is not yet mature enough to fully mature until about the age of 3. After the mother fixes the urine time for a long time, the child's self-urinating system will be affected, and when the child has the intention to urinate, he cannot urinate by stimulating the sphincter, the bladder sphincter is not elastic, and it is more likely to occur urinary infection symptoms such as frequent urination, urgency, and pain.
Affect the child's spinal development and interfere with the quality of your child's sleep
When you give your child urine, your child's spine is unevenly stressed and bent too much. Bao Mom has been holding the baby for a long time, the child's body is soft, the spine is not mature, it is easy to make the spinal joint development deformity, and it is easy to make the child's hip joint displaced.
More importantly, this may have an impact on the child's regular sleep, the child will wake up at the point, and once the conditioned reflex is formed, it will not sleep steadily.
Unfortunately, although some mothers know that urinating is not good for children, they are still willing to help their children go to the toilet in this way. Because in the eyes of these mothers, it is too long to wait for their children to learn to go to the toilet on their own. But in fact, in the child's 18 months or so, the mother can help the child practice going to the toilet in advance.
So, how do you inspire your child to go to the toilet? The method is very simple, at this age, the baby likes to imitate, but also can understand the meaning of the mother's actions. Therefore, when the mother goes to the toilet, the child can be guided: "The mother is going to the toilet." Then, the mother sits on the toilet, let the child hear the process of seeing the mother booing, and finally flush the water, and use language descriptions to the child to listen, repeatedly strengthening the child's memory.
The more times, the mother can buy a special urinal basin for the child and carry out simulation training. When the child has the intention of urinating again, the child is more likely to take the initiative to find the urinal basin, gradually bid farewell to the trouble of urinating, and let the child learn to take the initiative to go to the toilet faster.
How old were your children and learned to go to the toilet alone?