In the process of growing up, parents always hope that their children can learn some skills as soon as possible. However, some should not be premature in parenting, because some early learning will affect the health of the baby. For example, these are the things I'm going to talk about today.
1
Prematurely hold your head up
The vertical head hug here is not the same as the vertical head, the vertical head hug is to hold the baby vertically, which is different from the horizontal hug, and the vertical head is the head of the head on weekdays, generally speaking, the latter can be practiced occasionally during the month, and the former can be fully erected after about 6 months of age.
Suitable time: 4 months of age is enough, 6 months of age is preferred
Premature Hazards:
Baby's cervical spine development is a process, can not be too hasty, premature vertical head holding will increase the baby's spinal pressure, is not conducive to spinal development, excessive pressure may lead to the development of the spine deformity, abnormal bending and other situations.
2
Learn to walk too early
Some babies practice walking for more than 10 months, personally feel that it is too early, growth should be step by step, what age to learn what to do. Babies under 12 months of age are recommended to climb more and exercise the coordination of the limbs.
Suitable time: 12 months old
Before 12 months of age, the baby's bones are not fully developed, if you learn to walk too early, the weight of the baby's body will increase the burden on the legs, resulting in O-shaped or X-shaped legs. In the process of learning to walk, in order to support the weight of the body, the spine may be deformed, and over a long period of time, causing spinal deformities.
3
Put the on the too early
Some parents are influenced by the elderly in the family, or the baby is originally brought by the elderly. At this time, the old man will directly urinate the, and say that you grew up like this when you were a child, and you didn't see any problems. At this point, you are almost speechless. But now the times are different, parenting should be more scientific, you have to be brave enough to say no to them.
The right time: The baby has been able to defecate on his own, which can be used when it is inconvenient outside
A lot of harm from urine and urine too early can be listed at will: bad for the spine, bad for the sphincter, easy to have hemorrhoids in adulthood, possible prolapse, etc., and it may also have an impact on the baby's heart at the same time that it is not good for the body: worry about being scolded if you can't pull out, want to pull and don't dare to make a sound, etc., in short, there are many harms.
4
Exercise early to go to the toilet
Learning to go to the toilet is an important step for babies to become independent, but teaching them this skill requires the right timing, patience, and even reading the various expressions they need to go to the toilet.
Suitable time: 2 years old
Generally, baby toilet training can start at about 1.5 to 2 years old, too early training not only can not play any effect, but also may make the original regular bowel baby due to sudden change of bowel movement constipation, resulting in fetish phobia.
5
Sleep in separate beds too early
Some parents think that their children are more than 1 year old, so they try to sleep in separate beds, I personally feel that it is really unnecessary, children will grow up to become less dependent on you, go with the flow. And children sleep with their parents and feel the best sense of security.
Suitable age: 3 years old
Your baby sleeping alone may kick the quilt and cause a cold or fall out of bed. Parents do not sleep around steadily, bedwetting, thirst after no one knows, to cry to attract the attention of parents, this series of actions to take longer, thereby affecting the quality of children's sleep, not conducive to physical development.
6
Add condiments prematurely
In order to make the food supplement taste better, some mothers add the original food supplement and start to add sesame oil, soy sauce, salt and other condiments soon after, which is not right. After the baby eats the complementary food containing the condiment, it is difficult to give them the original supplement.
Suitable age: 3 years old or older (different seasoning time standards are different)
Adding condiments too early will increase the burden on the baby's body and kidneys, and induce the possibility of diseases such as high blood pressure when the baby grows up.
7
Wear gloves too early
Baby uses his hands to perceive the world, stimulate brain development, if you wear gloves early, it is bound to affect its development, so that the baby's hands are exposed, and it is no harm to perceive warmth and cold.
Suitable time: 3 years old
It is not conducive to the development of the baby's fingers, is not conducive to the exercise of fine movements, so that the baby cannot explore the unknown world.
8
Add or subtract clothes too early
Adding or subtracting clothes too early refers to not rushing to take off or add clothes during the change of seasons, and following the principle of spring and autumn frost. Reducing clothes later in the spring and adding clothes later in the autumn is more conducive to good health.
Suitable age: Applicable all year round
In the spring, there are many cold weather in spring, and if you lose clothes too early, you are prone to upper respiratory tract infections, resulting in influenza and other diseases. Autumn turns from hot to cold, and the lack of clothes irritates the cold air, enhancing the tolerance to the cold, and vice versa, it will feel colder.
9
Get up close and personal with your pet too early
Contact with pets can cultivate the baby's love and be a kind child from an early age, but the premise of contact is to ensure the safety of the baby. Recently, the news of babies being bitten by puppies is endless, and mothers must be careful to teach babies to have love and at the same time teach them to protect themselves.
Suitable age: 3 years old (parents present)
Even pets have a variety of bacteria on their bodies, and they are carriers of bacteria and may be spreaders. The baby's resistance itself is not as good as that of adults, so it can not be contacted without direct contact.
10
Premature exposure to electronics
Now there is no baby who does not like electronic products, mobile phones, tablets are their love, the operation is quite skilled, simply surprised me. Life is so long, there will be more opportunities to watch mobile phones and play tablets in the future, there is no need to play in the first few years.
Suitable age: 2 to 3 years old not more than 20 minutes a day
Premature exposure to electronic products is not conducive to normal language development and hinders children's normal communication. In addition, it is to affect the development of vision, the picture of electronic products mostly uses bright colors, too long gaze, will cause children optic nerve fatigue, induce myopia.
11
Living alone with grandparents prematurely
Parents have a real sense of deterrence, so when your grandparents propose to take it to the countryside, you can drag it out, try not to let the child go to the countryside with the elderly, the child will be spoiled lawless.
Suitable age: Winter and summer vacation after school.
Parents must pay attention to it, some of the things you think you can do are actually very detrimental to the growth of the baby, and you must put an end to it.