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For the growth of children, parents hope that each step can help children lead, and even show "excellence" beyond children of the same age, so they carry out all-round training from all aspects of eating and drinking Lhasa.
But the story of "seedlings and growth" is not unfamiliar to us, and we must always choose the right time node to do everything in order to achieve the effect of doubling the results with half the effort.
If you insist on going your own way and destroy the child's natural growth law, then it is likely to be counterproductive and drag the hind legs of growth.
Put the pros and cons of peeing at night
Do you want to wake up and pee in the middle of the night? I think all parents should have struggled with this problem, and many parents have made mistakes, but kindness has delayed the development of their children.
Now many families are the elderly to help take care of children, some diligent and think that they are very experienced old people, they began to use their own way to bring their babies, to ensure that children eat enough and wear warm, but also easy to produce some problems.
For example, giving a child urine at night seems to cultivate a child's good habits, but inadvertently damages the child's growth and development.
A mother took her child for a physical examination before her child went to kindergarten, and the doctor found that the child was a little short, so he asked for details of feeding and care.
When mentioning whether the child can sleep at night, Bao Mom said with some embarrassment that because she is busy at work, she is taken care of by the elderly at night, in order not to wet the bed, the elderly will wake up the child regularly at night to urinate, probably once or twice a night.
After the doctor heard about it, he was very surprised and said that he had found the "root of the disease".
Unexpectedly, in the current era, the elderly do not give such a small child to sleep with diapers, but also wake up the sleeping child to urinate, which is why the baby is shorter than other children of the same age.
A good night's sleep helps with physical development
For children, sleep at night is extremely precious.
Scientific studies have shown that when children are asleep at night, the brain secretes three times more growth hormone than usual.
So when they go to bed at night, children seem to be quiet, but in fact, their bodies are undergoing significant changes.
In the process of children growing up, the functions of their body organs are also constantly sound and mature, and the antidiuretic hormone secreted by the body at night will be reduced, so that the urine produced by the body at night will be reduced. The urine storage function of the kidneys and bladder will be enhanced.
This change of subtraction and increase will gradually form the ability and habit of urinating less at night.
The old man wakes up the child every night and urinates, which will obviously destroy the development law of the child's body.
First, it reduces the time the child sleeps, so that growth hormone cannot multiply and function;
Second, let urination become a conditioned reflex after hearing the booing of the elderly, rather than the physical need to urinate.
Respect the law and raise it scientifically
In order to let the child urinate less at night and try to sleep peacefully and steadily, parents can start from the following aspects and carry out scientific parenting under the premise of respecting the child's growth law.
First, reduce your water intake.
One hour before the child goes to bed, parents should try to control the amount of milk and water they drink. This is also applicable to adults, who drink too much water before going to bed at night, and naturally have to get up in bed in the middle of the night to go to the toilet.
Second, wear diapers.
Children should try to wear diapers to sleep at night before the age of three, this age of children, the nervous system and organs that control urination are not yet fully developed, so the appearance of bedwetting cannot be avoided.
Wearing diapers can avoid bedwetting; second, you can save children from the trouble of waking up helplessly from wet beds; third, children and parents can avoid the embarrassment of getting up in the morning to discuss bedwetting, and you must know that children are also very face-saving.
Finally, gradually develop your child's urination habits.
Under the premise that the child has the premise of expressing his willingness to urinate independently, parents can teach the child to go to the toilet correctly, and teach the child to remember to wake up the parents to urinate or accompany them to the toilet after having "urination intention" at night.
If the child is too young, during the day can not predict when they want to urinate, parents should not be too anxious, at night regular urination can not play any training role, but will produce a lot of "side effects".
Including urinating at night, many local methods and traditional ways for the elderly to bring their babies have certain drawbacks.
However, for the sake of family harmony, young parents should still communicate and discuss with the elderly more, and try to avoid the occurrence of unpleasant situations such as accusations and commands.
In essence, the elderly want to be good to the child in everything they do, they have no malice, they just do the wrong thing with good intentions.