After the mothers have given birth, if they do not have the idea of having a second and third child, most of them will choose sterilization, otherwise the later contraception is also a big trouble. In terms of sterilization, most of them were previously done by women, basically choosing to ligature or Sheung Wan, of which there will be more women who choose to ligature.
But in these years, some women are reluctant to do sterilization anymore, thinking that men should also give something, especially some women think that they have experienced the pain of having children, and men must at least show some expression. Therefore, for this aspect, men will also be required to ligature, but usually they will be rejected by men, and contradictions will arise.
Case: "Sterilization and divorce, choose one of the two", the husband and wife almost got into trouble with the Civil Affairs Bureau because of the conflict between postpartum sterilization
After Ms. Lin and her husband got married, she gave birth to two children in five years, both of which were delivered by caesarean section, and after giving birth to her second child, Ms. Lin decided to go to sterilization, but once when chatting with a friend, she heard a friend say that the side effects of female sterilization are very large, so she let her husband go to sterilization, and also suggested that Ms. Lin also let her husband go to sterilization.
After returning home, Ms. Lin mentioned this idea to her husband, and as a result, her husband directly threw a sentence" "I don't go, I have never seen any other man to get turkish." Ms. Lin did not expect her husband to react this way, so she said, "Men now have a lot of ligations, and the side effects are small, I have had two caesarean sections, can't you do a ligation?" ”
Ms. Lin's husband said again, "Since you have done it twice, does it make any difference if you do it again?" Ms. Lin trembled because of her husband's words, and the two had a big fight, and finally the husband simply said, "Either get a ligature or divorce, choose one of the two." "Ms. Lin couldn't believe that her husband would be this attitude.
At this time, the mother-in-law also heard the noise and rushed over, probably also knew the content of the quarrel, and also began to persuade Ms. Lin, basically women to do sterilization, but also said that male sterilization hurts the body, to put it bluntly, it is on the side of her son. The same woman, why bother with the woman, Ms. Lin did not say a word and directly packed up her things and returned to her mother's house with two children.
In fact, many couples will face such problems after marriage, especially now many women will choose to ask their husbands to undergo sterilization after knowing that there are greater side effects of sterilization, but often can not seek each other's consent.
01 What pain points does the ligation hit the man?
In fact, there are many reasons why domestic men do not want to do sterilization, there are two main factors, on the one hand, it is affected by the idea of machismo, resulting in men feeling that there are things about pregnancy that should be done by women, rather than let men come, so men have a strong resistance to this aspect. They will think that if they do a sterilization, it means that the dignity of men has been hit, and they think that it is a matter of face, so they are even more reluctant to do it.
On the other hand, many men also have a big misunderstanding of ligation, they think that after ligation will affect their sexual ability, in fact, ligation is only to hinder the discharge of men's "small tadpoles", and will not affect men's sexual power. And if you want to continue the pregnancy in the future, you can actually achieve it through reversal surgery.
Compared with women, men have fewer side effects of ligation surgery, and the whole operation is also very simple, the time spent is short, the risk is generally much smaller, and the postoperative and even rest time is very short. After the ligation surgery, women may have low back pain, bleeding, lower abdomen pain and other conditions. Not only that, after the ligation, if the body reacts unwellly, there may be adhesions, blockages, fluid accumulations, etc., once these problems occur, it is more troublesome for women.
Therefore, in contrast, it is still more recommended for men to do a ligature. I also hope that male friends will not have ideological burdens, which is actually a manifestation of responsibility and responsibility.
Of course, if neither husband and wife are willing to do sterilization and other sterilizations, there is a more convenient and safer way to use postpartum contraception, that is, the use of safety measures. In fact, even if sterilization is performed, safety measures are more recommended in subsequent marital intimate behaviors.
Because it can avoid the problem of cross-infection to a large extent, it is a pity that many couples do not like to use this method. It is recommended here that those mothers with weak resistance, even if they have sterilization surgery after childbirth, it is best to use safety measures, otherwise they may repeat various inflammatory problems.
Conclusion: In fact, whether it is sterilization or other issues, after forming a family, many things must be considered by both parties for each other and agree to make the best choice, such a family atmosphere is beneficial to the growth of children and the relationship between husband and wife.