It is painful to have a baby, and it is hard to raise a baby, so many women swear to never have a baby again after giving birth to a baby, because the same pain does not want to suffer a second time. So some women, after giving birth, think of doing "ligature" and permanent contraception.
The idea sounds good, but the truth is not as simple as it seems.
The mother asked for a sterilization just after giving birth, and the doctor was painfully persuaded
Recently, a video of a woman who had just given birth and asked for a sterilization was dissuaded by a doctor became popular on the Internet, causing heated discussion among netizens.
A mother who had just given birth to her baby was lying weakly in a hospital bed. Presumably women who have had experience in childbirth know that after giving birth, their consciousness is somewhat blurred, but this mother strongly asks the doctor to mate herself.
For the requirements of the mother, the doctor naturally feels very skeptical, but more or less painful. When it is learned that the mother is the first child, and it is still a daughter, I kindly persuade and inform the mother: if you are ligatured at this time, it will be more troublesome if you want to give birth later.
But after listening to the doctor's persuasion, the mother still insisted on sterilization, saying that she had a good one, the doctor really did not want the mother to regret it later, so she persuaded again that she could consider letting the mother's husband ligature, after all, the damage and risk of male ligation surgery was much smaller than that of female ligation, and it was easier for men to dredge it later.
Although the doctor explained the risks of sterilization and the advantages and disadvantages of male and female sterilization to the mother, but after half a day of persuasion, the mother still did not listen to the doctor's advice, but said that she felt that "the average man would not agree to do the sterilization", which means that her husband will not accept it.
The doctor saw that the mother herself was so insistent, and finally she could only reluctantly obey the woman's request and perform a sterilization operation.
The reason why the mother responded to the ligation after the operation was too sad
A sentence from the mother speaks to the voice of most women, and it seems that many men will not accept the matter of sterilization from the beginning. Male sterilizations are less harmful than women's, but there will still be men who would rather put their wives at greater risk than accept it themselves.
In this regard, many netizens have expressed their own views, saying that the pregnant woman is "not worth it":
"If a woman divorces after a woman's sterilization, it will be more difficult to remarry later, after all, many second-married husbands will want their wives to have children." "Women should not try to do a ligature when they have a caesarean section, if they meet a man who does not feel sorry for you, they will look down on you because of your sterilization."
Why when a woman asks for a ligature, the doctor will persuade her
Many women in the caesarean section, will consider anyway to operate, simply ask the doctor to do the "ligation" surgery, so that they do not have to suffer "two times" in the future. But when you tell the doctor about this idea, the doctor advises that it is best not to, why is this?
1) Doctors consider the future of women
Nowadays, many doctors are becoming more and more humane, and even many first-born women have the requirement of sterilization, and doctors will resolutely refuse, hoping that women can leave a way back for themselves, after all, there are too many uncertainties in marriage.
Not only the original family, even the remarried family, the recombined men and women both hope to have a child of their own, so that the family is more solid, so in terms of whether to ligature, women still have to choose carefully.
2) The chance of getting pregnant again after ligation is low
If a woman wants to have children after ligation, it is not as simple as just surgery to re-connect the fallopian tubes, you know, the success rate of surgical reversal of the fallopian tubes is very low, and in the end, the worst point, you can only choose to do IVF.
This method not only brings certain pain to women's bodies and minds, but also requires a lot of money, which is a big blow to most ordinary families.
Before a woman decides to ligature, the following aspects should be clearly considered
Of course, some women decide to completely "seal their stomachs" after giving birth to a second or multiple children. These women are either happy in family marriages or have enough children and will no longer think about having children.
Therefore, before deciding whether to ligature, we must consider the following aspects:
I'm sure I really won't have another baby in the future
Although having a child is painful, it does not mean that women's ideas about having a baby will not change, and once they want to have children, then the decision to do ligature surgery is a bit reckless.
It is best to consider some other forms of contraception
Although ligation is a minor procedure, it can also hurt the vitality, and although the contraceptive effect is permanent, it is not a perfect method. There are still many other contraceptive options to choose from than sterilization, which are more effective and easier to reproduce.
Kojima would like to say:
In the matter of sterilization, everyone has their own ideas, whether they choose to ligature or not, I hope that every man should be kind to his wife, after all, even if he does not ligature, having children is hard enough.