After I went to work, I called my wife at noon one day, and my wife said that my aunt had come again, with my aunt and grandmother, and I wondered if I had just arrived after the New Year. #Gold Powder Community#
My aunt's words surprised me even more, and asked my father and my uncle to beat up my uncle. What years and months have passed since this, and it is illegal to beat people.
My aunt and my uncle were married for the third time and had a son. The husband and wife looked very close, the uncle worked outside for many years, and after returning home for the New Year, the two people began to quarrel years ago.
It is difficult for the Qing officials to judge the housework, let's not talk about the reasons for their quarrels, let's talk about my aunt's marriage first. Long talk, I don't know if a micro headline can be put down.
Speaking of my aunt's marriage, let's talk about my grandmother first. My grandmother didn't have a new house when she got married, and after getting married, after her own efforts, she built a new house elsewhere, but she didn't live in it. My grandmother was not in a good location, and my grandfather's life could not be suppressed, so my grandparents continued to live in the old house, and the grandmother lived in the new house.
Then for my dad, my uncle built a house to get married.
I used to live in my uncle's house, and after my uncle got married, my grandparents moved back to the old house and built the old house again.
The houses range from the adobe wall huts at the beginning to the stone wall tile houses that followed.
In my grandmother's words, I built my own house for a lifetime.
When my aunt reached the age of marriage, five brick houses began to be popular. So my grandmother set a standard for my aunt through her own experience: there must be five brick houses. It's like there are suites in town today. #Marriage#
At the beginning, my aunt booked a family affair, and I had the impression that the man's length was good, and he might be a family in general. Listening to my mother, when he came to my house, he always looked up at the roof of my house and counted my houses.
At that time, the man was three rooms, seeing that I and my uncle's family were three rooms, I thought I could marry my aunt home, I heard that in a light rainy weather, my grandfather and my aunt returned all the things that the man had set up, and this family affair was pulled down.
From the beginning of the selection of relatives, I made a mistake, and the first criterion was not people, but houses.
My aunt got married for the first time, and the man did have five rooms, only five rooms, and the toilets were hollow bricks.
It is also this house that has left a foreshadowing for future divorces.
My uncle's parents were older, and the five rooms were built at the expense of my uncle's sister, and when I built them, I said yes, three for my uncle and two for my uncle's parents. I don't know if my aunt knew about this before she got married. After marriage, my aunt did not let my in-laws live in those two rooms, and there was a lot of trouble.
My uncle loved to drink, talked a lot after drinking, and was extremely filial to his parents, so his family was not as good as my grandparents, and he was not good at work. My aunt is extremely strong, extremely controlling, not good at running a family, wanton, and her attitude towards her in-laws is that the shallots mixed with tofu are all clear.
I can't say specific things, just say my evaluation, I once told my mother, I will look for a wife in the future, don't look for my aunt like this. Who knows, fate jokes with me, afraid of what comes.
How many times have I made trouble, my uncle wrote a letter of guarantee, my aunt disappeared to work in other places, perhaps this part-time work experience made my aunt firmly divorced.
At that time, my mother advised my aunt that for the sake of the children, she would put on the dressing, and it would be good to go to the old age.
My aunt said: For the sake of the child, for the sake of the child, for the sake of the child, I don't want my happiness. #What marriage can do for us#
Our custom at that time, the man built a room, set up a bed, other furniture in the family pots and pans and other things are all accompanied by the woman. At that time, my grandparents accompanied me to send a lot of things, even more than it cost to marry two daughters-in-law. When the gift was joyful, when the divorce was carried back, grandpa pulled the old face and begged the family, which no one wanted to do.
At that time, the custom was that the divorced woman wanted to break the bowl, and the bowl was not good for the man. On the same day, someone advised my aunt not to fall, leave a face to leave a way out, my aunt did not listen, left only a bowl on the table to serve vegetables, picked up and fell.
He hadn't thought about taking all the dishes and dishes away, what her daughter would eat.
When my aunt left, her daughter cried and chased her out for a long time. Before I didn't know, now as a father, I feel heartache, how to give up, iron heart, that is the flesh that was lit down on the body ah [tears] [tears] [tears]
My aunt may have been the first to divorce in our village, and after this incident, my grandfather lost thirty or forty pounds. I remember very clearly, when my uncle and brother asked my grandfather to ride a foreign car to take him to the market, my grandfather said that he could not move. #Cooling-off Period for Divorce#
Later my aunt looked for the second one.
After the divorce, my aunt also wanted her daughter, and she had picked up her daughter from school to go to the rental house, and her daughter had told her that the one she was looking for was crazy. My aunt didn't believe it, thinking it was a good thing for her ex to spoil her.
The second time I got married, it was also a normal operation, our family went to send it, and I also went. Then I went to the army and wasn't home. Maybe my aunt saw that other people's lives were sound and colorful, and her own life was bleak, and she wanted to catch up with them, build a matching house, and put furniture. The compulsion may be a little tight, and the man is really crazy. I used to be crazy, cured, life without pressure is fine, life pressure will be crazy.
He commented on my aunt's words: You are Sun Wukong, you are the most powerful.
During the period of giving birth to a daughter, with swear words, giving birth to a child has no fart eyes, this child really has no fart eyes, spent a lot of money, did not cure, left.
When I was demobilized and returned home, my aunt divorced for the second time, and I advised her to go back to my first uncle's house. She didn't reply, and she couldn't say why, only that I didn't understand.
Others also advised the first uncle to lead the child to call my aunt, and he said that he would beat a bare stick all his life and would not want my aunt.
I had been to my aunt's rental house, and at that time I was quite envious of others being able to live a normal aunt's house, but I couldn't.
My grandfather rode a foreign car again and again to drag people to help my aunt fight a divorce lawsuit. Other people have four or five daughters, and my grandmother doesn't have to worry about raising a daughter.
Every New Year's Festival, the daughter who got married could not be in her mother's house, and on August 15 of the same year, my grandfather wanted my aunt to come back for fifteen years, but for some reason, my aunt did not come back. The next day, my grandfather was going to go to the city to buy a refrigerator, but he couldn't rest assured that my aunt was not at ease. #Marriage & Family#
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