Friends, today we continue to talk about the topic of the French (fà) Chinese concept of marriage and love.
In the past two days, Young French people have set off a wave of hot topics: two or three things between me and my predecessor.
According to statistics, the most favorite excuse for the failure of the relationship between French men after meeting a new partner is: My ex this woman is a crazy person, so I broke up, what can I do? I'm innocent!
Emotional experts pointed out that it is best not to talk about this kind of shirking responsibility, feelings are jointly operated by both parties, and problems should not be blindly blamed on the woman.
Experts believe that making such a low-level and inferior excuse is a very, very bad choice, and it is better to keep your mouth shut.
In addition, the hypocrisy of some French men wearing victim masks is very unkind: on the one hand, they protest and complain that their ex-girlfriend is a crazy woman who harasses themselves, on the other hand, they hold nude photos of their ex and refuse to delete and steal his ex's money...
Do such a ridiculous and excessive thing, don't blame the ex-girlfriend for not being spared!
These men who shirk their responsibilities invariably fit the view put forward by the famous German philosopher Georg Hegel in the 19th century: the nature of women is inseparable from madness.
And he wasn't the only philosopher to think so. Men's stereotypes of women being hysterical, not good at controlling emotions, and lack of rationality have long been deeply rooted in the marrow.
But in fact, according to authoritative scientific research, women are not more emotional than men.
According to recent findings published in the journal Scientific Reports, a team of experts at the University of Michigan studied the effects of gender, especially hormones, on mood, and then they found that emotional ups and downs between men and women are essentially the same.
This completely shattered people's thousands of years of "emotional difference between men and women".
Adriene Beltz, an assistant professor of psychology who led the study, said the same was emotional, with men being praised for being "enthusiastic" and women being criticized for "losing their minds."
Some French women thus conclude that women are insane—a means of easily degrading and taming women. When men accuse women of having tempers and being jealous and mad, women are forced to suppress their emotions, and men win.
Of course, the relationship between men and women does not mean that men are poisonous, after all, evil selfishness has nothing to do with gender.
You may already have a situation where your boyfriend complains to you about how bad your ex is and how unworthy he is.
Maïna, 45, has been in love with a divorced man for 4 years, and her ex-wife is an "emotionally unstable crazy woman" in the mouth of her boyfriend, and Maina is not sure how many times better than her!
After hearing her boyfriend's praise, Maina said that it was difficult not to be moved into her boyfriend's arms. However, after a few years of seeing people's hearts, Maina fully realized that her boyfriend was the selfish and emotionally unstable guy.
Many French women said that it is unacceptable not to respect the ex, loved, enough, why slander and demean? Isn't it good to have a little cultivation and respect? Respecting others is respecting yourself, after all, you chose this person in the first place.
Although the evasion of responsibility is caused by human nature, the truly intelligent and cultivated people break up and have a good relationship, forget each other, and malicious slander and slander will only hit their own face.
"What if the ex is really crazy? Would you denigrate the mentally ill? No, we will help him/her. ”
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Ref：
https://www.leparisien.fr/sentinelles/mon-ex-est-folle-une-phrase-qui-en-dit-long-sur-les-hommes-13-02-2022-UE2SR6VBA5A2HP2EZZPASR4HRE.php#xtor=AD-1481423553
https://zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E7%A7%91%E5%AD%B8%E5%A0%B1%E5%91%8A
https://www.leparisien.fr/culture-loisirs/tv/accuse-de-sexisme-darmanin-regrette-davoir-pu-offenser-la-journaliste-apolline-de-malherbe-11-02-2022-Q2DXXUHNJJBJFF6USRKY73YPCE.php
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