For children who have just entered primary school, everything is novel, children are often full of passion for schooling, and children gradually adapt to primary school life and begin to be a little "lazy", the so-called "novelty makes people excited, adapting makes people lazy". After the children gradually adapted to the learning and life of primary school, the laziness caused some problems: such as stepping on the point in the morning, being late; not writing seriously, not completing homework carefully, and standing and sitting postures have a little problem, most of which are related to lazy learning attitudes.
The reasons for this are mainly the following three points:
1. There is no correct concept of learning.
2. Poor self-control.
3. Rewards and punishments are not in place.
First, there is no correct concept of learning, and I do not know what I am learning for.
Of course, to say that such a small child to let them say that learning for the sake of the future lofty ideals is indeed a bit abstract, we can take simple, they are interested in the things to guide: children are very fond of reading, parents can say that you can learn pinyin well you can read more stories; you learn the language, sentences, you can express your ideas more clearly, small partners can understand your meaning better; learn mathematics, you can buy more things you want to buy later. When the child is not clear why he goes to school every day, he will be motivated to learn and the meaning of every little thing related to learning.
Second, poor self-control.
It is true that it is natural for children to be active, but children must also be aware of the rules of the lesson, which is not so much a forced rule as it is a ritual for interacting with people. Laziness and casualness will reduce their enthusiasm for class, and the sitting posture will not show respect for others. Sitting straight on the side of the lecture is an expression of etiquette, and listening carefully to the speeches of the students also expresses respect for the students. Therefore, behind the laziness of listening to lectures also reflects the lack of classroom etiquette for children.
Here I want to talk about the education of parents, not only refers to the oral education of parents, I want to focus on the demonstration education of parents here. Children are masters of imitation, and your words and deeds are the objects of children's imitation. Therefore, usually our parents should pay attention to the words and deeds in front of their children. Not only are we close friends to our children, we are also role models for our children to learn from. The demonstration I want to communicate with you here mainly includes two points: habits and etiquette (study habits, living habits), because these are the things that children can learn most from their parents.
Get used to it first. Study habits. Whether parents notice their reading and writing posture. Do we keep a distance from the books? Is our back straight? Do you clean up our desks often and take care of your books? Test whether the disk will be reviewed. Yes, these details are also important. Because those little eyes are also observing, in many ways that the teacher has not yet covered, your approach is the child's textbook. Also living habits. Whether to work and rest on time, healthy work and rest; eat healthy; orderly storage of things; self-discipline, maintain a certain amount of exercise time.
Secondly, etiquette. Use polite language often, and say thank you to friends. Before expressing opinions, listen to others to finish speaking, know how to listen; be humble; respect the fruits of other people's labor, and be euphemistic when pointing out other people's mistakes, which is also how to meet children and children to get along correctly and friendly.
Parents can also have a sense of consciousness at home: I am a role model for my children! I want to lead by example at all times!
Third, rewards and punishments are not in place.
"Children need to be coaxed", prize points small snacks, small stickers, these are things that children like very much, and the low section is still very effective. Getting affirmations and rewards in school will make children more motivated to learn, more energetic, more motivated and confident to do every little thing. And if you make a mistake, education and punishment also need to be done, and you must avoid "ineffective tolerance", strict management is love.
The main body of reward and punishment is not only the teacher, but also the parents. Quantify its daily behavior to the child for positive praise: For example, parents can quantify it into the following indicators in the order of time every day: 1. Habits (get up on time to go to bed, do not procrastinate; love cleanliness and hygiene; whether the sitting and standing posture is correct; whether they pack and organize their school bags; cherish food, etc.) 2. Homework (whether they are completed on time; the quality of completion, the daily homework gets A+ quantity; whether the writing is neat; whether they insist on reading, etc.) 3. Additional (active learning; active help others and family members to do things; understand politeness and be civilized Love of labor, etc.) according to the situation of their children to carry out daily encouragement. Done, we put on the small red flowers together, it doesn't matter if we don't do it, it doesn't matter if we try harder, but a week or a month we have to set a goal, how many small red flowers can be obtained to achieve a careful wish. Prizes can be not just toys, but also what book to buy; where to go to see the view. The time and effort put in is directly proportional to the value of the wish. In this way, each family measures it according to its own situation to continue to motivate the child.
The method needs to be adhered to by parents to be effective, and I hope that these suggestions can help everyone to help children adjust their learning status and guide their children to learn in school!