Introduction: Teaching by example? Vendor balloons are scattered on the ground, and women with children take advantage of the chaos!
People are good in nature, there are no bad children, only bad parents, and family education is crucial for children.
On February 10, such a scene occurred on the streets of the ancient city of Qiancheng District, Zhangzhou, Fujian Province.
A vendor is selling balloons on the street, and then saw the city management rushed, in a hurry the balloons scattered on the ground, at this time a parent led the child to pick up the balloon, the child said a word "no", the parents let go of the child's hand, quickly picked up a few balloons, happy to leave.
The parent's behavior led to another parent, who picked up a balloon and left the scene laughing. It is sad that the toys of only a few tens of dollars make them sell their and their children's dignity!
On the one hand, the peddlers who run for their lives, the city workers who enforce the law according to the rules, and the parents who reap the benefits of the fishermen on the other side, these three forces are in the same frame, forming a sharp contrast.
The first two have their own positions, everyone's approach is not too problematic, and the parents' behavior is purely inferior, no compassion, no morality, no self-consciousness as a parent, and no correct guidance to the child. It is not an exaggeration to say that this group of parents is taking advantage of the fire and robbery.
Public opinion fermented, the two women Huang Mouhua and Huang Moumei saw the video transmitted on the Internet, took the initiative to go to the ancient city police office to review the error, and handed over all the toys they took.
After criticism and education, the two were deeply ashamed, and with the help of police officers, the two sincerely apologized to the vendors, and Chen Moumou also expressed understanding. Some netizens said: Apologize is over? It's robbery!
Greedy and cheap to eat big losses, even children know what not to do, two adults are shameless, worthy of reflection.
Strictly speaking, the two adults did rob things, but they did not rise to the level of "robbery", at best it was a moral problem, and they would not bear legal responsibility.
The worst part of the impact of this matter is not in the elderly, nor in public opinion, but in a few children.
On the one hand, the child is misled by the behavior of the parents, and there will be a change in values in the heart; on the other hand, after the matter is exposed, the two parents are famous in the local area, and the child has such a mother, and will definitely be looked at differently by the peers and teachers, and the school bullying begins with such a small thing.
Of course, parents who can do this kind of thing probably won't think about it, and selfish people in their bones will not change radically because they are parents.
Now that the apology has been made, the matter can be over, and everyone does not have to hold on to it, not because they have forgiven the two mothers, but because they have considered their children, who are innocent.
What is teaching by example? Parents are the child's first teacher, family education is the most important education in the process of children's growth, do more than deeds, everything parents do, in the eyes of children are correct, so when parents do despicable things, the child's three views are reversed, children will subconsciously think that they are also right to do this.
When the child goes to school, the teacher becomes the second teacher, even if the teacher teaches well, if the parent's behavior and the content taught by the teacher conflict, the child will still feel that the parents are doing the right thing, thus doubting the teacher and peers, which is the source of inferiority.