I am 35 years old, an older leftover woman, with white skin and beautiful skin. I went on a blind date today, the man is an engineer, and we have a good feeling for each other. Later, he asked me a question, and I answered truthfully. However, unexpectedly, he suddenly changed his face, and what he did next made me very angry!
My name is Yaoyao, I am 35 years old, excellent looks, 165 height, long hair and waist, fair skin and beautiful, graduated from a key university. I was in good condition, but until now I haven't had a boyfriend, friends around me have kids, and I'm not married.
After graduating from college and getting employed, one day on the way to work. I was intercepted by some young people in society and tried to bully me, when a boy saved me and called the police! And just like that, I met, my first love.
His name was Zhang Ze, and in order to thank him for his bravery, I invited him to dinner, which I should have paid for, but in the end he paid. He said, "As a man, how can you get a woman to entertain you?" I saw that he was very grandfatherly, so I left contact information for each other.
Later, we chatted a lot, gradually became acquainted with each other, and slowly we began to date, he was the salesman of the company, humorous, and very good at taking care of me. After a few months of contact, he confessed to me and I accepted him.
Later moved to his apartment, man! It's strange that when you're not together, you talk sweetly and love you in all kinds, but if you're really with him, he'll slowly be cold to you and ignore you.
After we lived together for a few months, he changed, coming home late every day, falling asleep when he got home, and sometimes, with a heavy smell of perfume on his body, I saw the limousine take him home many times.
I asked him if there were other women out there, and he wouldn't admit it. I confessed at the time that if there was a woman, I could choose to leave, and he had been busy at work as an excuse to avoid my questions.
But in less than a month, he had a showdown, he said that he had an affair with the female boss, and the other party's family was rich and could help him take the leap, so that he could fight for at least 50 years. I wanted to cry without tears when I heard it, but I didn't expect that my first love was a scumbag, and he actually said that the betrayal was so bright and upright, so shameless and despicable.
Our two-year relationship is as fragile as glass, broken is broken, so he ruthlessly abandoned me, since there is no feeling, I do not have to cherish, I also have dignity, since I decided to break up, you go to your boss, I go to my next happiness, so we broke up completely.
After the breakup, I reviewed myself, before I looked at the appearance, pay attention to the skin bag, and later I found that the main thing for two people to be together is to have the same three views, have common hobbies, tolerance, understanding, before I was really too superficial. Parents also say that the influence of family on people is very large. Three views, education level! All aspects of living habits, if different, even if you barely live, you will be unhappy, very painful, and eventually it is inevitable to divorce.
Although my requirements are not high, there are few men around who meet the standards. In recent years, I have also been on blind dates many times, and now I am 35 years old, still alone. Actually, I don't want to lower the bar, I think I have to find true love.
However, in the past two years, my parents' health has become worse and worse, and my parents have often been troubled by my marriage. I feel sorry for my parents, every day they worry about me, I don't want my parents to worry, so I want to marry myself out as soon as possible.
I met my blind date today. He was an engineer, 33 years old, with a salary of twenty thousand, very handsome and very attractive. After meeting, we were very satisfied with each other, in fact, I was quite confident in my appearance, although I was 35 years old, but I looked like a person in my 20s without saying anything.
We introduced each other's conditions at home, our own situation, and he seemed satisfied. I think there is hope of getting rid of the single today, during the banquet, he directly asked me if I have been in love, how many times have I been in love? How many boyfriends do you have?
I was upset, but when I think about it, I felt like we still had the possibility of getting married, so I told the truth, I said, "I talked about a boyfriend, it was my first love, and we lived together."
His face became ugly after he listened to me, he went out as an excuse to go out of the toilet, but I waited for him for a long time and did not come back, 20 minutes passed, he did not appear. 50 minutes passed, but he didn't show up, and after that I waited for him for two hours and he still didn't see anyone.
I know this time it's gone again, I think his thoughts are weird, I'm a 35 year old woman, how could I not have been in a relationship? Cohabitation is also a matter of course, and if you're looking for a 35-year-old virgin, I don't think it's possible. After all, today's society is not ancient! I think his idea is too old.
Everyone says yes or no, is he a strange person?
@ Happiness shallow condensed emotional life I think everyone has their own right to choose, the other party does not accept this, we must also understand, but can not say that people are very strange, just different preferences, in fact, this is just a small episode on the road to blind date, you don't have to care too much.
I believe that in the future you will definitely encounter better, for the problem of cohabitation, I would like to say that the problem is universal, but female students also know to protect themselves, and finally wish you to find your own happiness as soon as possible!
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