In modern society, to cultivate an excellent child, in addition to the child's own efforts, of course, it is inseparable from the cultivation and dedication of parents. A wise parent will not deliberately ask his child to work hard according to the parent's thinking. And understand the child, guide him, and make the child interested in good things. So that you can work on your own. Parents should know that excellent children are not "forced" out.
How to cultivate children from an early age to have self-confidence, assertiveness, communication, love of reading, independence, popularity, high performance and other good habits, can not be separated from the details in life, as well as the cultivation of examples around the child.
1, from an early age to cultivate children's popular habits, develop children love clean, tidy good habits, no one like sloppy children; Cultivate children's good mentality and smile more, smiling is a polite behavior; When getting along with others, first remember their names; Don't talk about others behind your back; Observe time and public order; Cultivate children to have a pair of diligent little hands, diligent people can always be a kind of inexplicable good feeling; Tell your child not to take other people's things casually and move other people's things randomly.
2, from an early age to cultivate children's high-performance habits, let the child know, learn to set goals for themselves, make plans, do things to have a beginning and an end, focus on concentration, do not delay, learn to divide the priorities, important things to do first, do things to be good at using the brain, can not only use their hands, rational use of their own scattered time. Take things out and return to their positions in time to develop good habits. Be good at summarizing yourself, make a little progress every day, and form good habits after a long time.
3, from an early age to cultivate several habits of communication, first of all, the premise of communication we must learn to be good at listening, become a listener in order to know the needs of others, so that there is a topic of communication; When communicating, we should communicate with sincere eyes, and it is not advisable to perfunctory behavior of others; Be good at praising and encouraging others; Learn to negotiate when things happen, and do not interrupt the conversation of others during conversation; After you make mistakes, you must dare to admit your mistakes.
4, from an early age to cultivate the child's sense of responsibility, let the child know to have the ability to take care of themselves, do anything to be responsible for their own behavior, do not find excuses, keep their promises, and be an honest person.
5. Cultivate children's win-win thinking from an early age, learn to share, know the power of collaboration, and learn to think differently when getting along with people.
6, from an early age to cultivate children to cherish themselves, a person only first love themselves, know their importance, cultivate children's feelings, cherish family affection, loyal to their own interests, to achieve a balanced diet, diligent exercise, with regular sleep time.
7, from an early age to cultivate children's self-confidence, first let the children discover their own strengths, have confidence in themselves, do things to have an opinion, so as to get rid of pressure, appropriate "contentment".
8. Cultivate children's positive and enterprising behavior from an early age, do not close themselves in life, dare to face challenges when things happen, do not give up lightly, and persist to the end.
9. Other good habits, cultivating children's habit of loving to ask questions, can stimulate children's thinking, and exercise children's independent thinking ability; No vanity, no comparison between classmates, cultivate children's awareness of financial management.
Raising children is the responsibility of parents, children are born is a blank piece of paper, parents should give their children the right guidance.