Huang Xianjuan, | of the winter holiday of rural teachers: This winter vacation does something different for the "family"

Editor's note: "The day is not everywhere, youth comes from just now; moss flowers are as small as rice, and peonies are also learned." "This is a true portrayal of the vast majority of small-scale rural schools. In the past 2021, the reporter went from Yinan to Yuncheng, and then from Zhuanhua to Yiyuan squatting, witnessing many educators with feelings taking root in the countryside, and they are working hard to make up for the gap with glimmer and help rural children grow better. The family sits idly and the lights are amiable, which is the ideal state for the Spring Festival reunion. In small-scale rural schools in many parts of Shandong, countless rural principals and teachers are rushing to the homes of students in remote rural areas that lead to the middle of the mountain, and they want to use their precious winter vacation time to go to their children's homes and enter their children's hearts. From now on, the Qilu Evening News Qilu One-Point "Youth Talk" column will successively launch the "Winter Holiday Memories of Rural Principals/Teachers", focusing on what rural teachers see, hear and feel during home visits, light up the dreams of rural children, and inject strength into rural revitalization.

The following is the winter holiday record of Huang Xianjuan of Donggaozhuang Primary School in Nanma Street, Yiyuan County, Zibo City:

"Because we are a family, a family that loves each other, we should share the blessings, we should share the hardships, and we should exchange mutual knowledge for a long time." Just like the lyrics sing, under the leadership of principal Wang Shuqi, Donggaozhuang Primary School of Nanma Street Office in Yiyuan County has become more and more "home" flavor and more and more "home" warmth.

During the summer vacation, we walked into the "companion learning point" of the village, and the volunteer teachers brought a variety of music lessons, paper-cutting lessons, calligraphy lessons and other courses for the children, and this winter vacation we will do something different for the "family".

The vast majority of students in Donggaozhuang Primary School are from rural areas, some children have to take dozens of miles of school buses to reach the school in the morning, their parents' cultural level is not very high, every day for their livelihood has been very busy, the children's education is also a little difficult. In schools, teachers try to broaden the children's horizons as much as possible, hoping that they can receive a good education like the children in the city, but the problem of education is not one party to work hard, and the family is always an important place for children to cultivate personality habits.

In order to let more "family members" understand some methods and techniques in family education and guide the healthy growth of children, this winter vacation we carried out three phases of "Family Education Family Talk" live broadcast activities. It was an honor for me to participate in the second live stream on January 26 as a class teacher.

The "Family Education Family Talk" activity selected a group of representative families from each class, walked into the students' homes, introduced the experience of family education to all the "families" through dingtalk live broadcast, put forward the confusion in family education, and commented and answered by professional family education instructors.

When I received the school notice to choose a group of families to participate in the activity, I struggled for a long time, I did not know whether to choose a family with a particularly good family atmosphere, or choose a family with some "regrets", the former is a successful experience, and the latter can cause us to think, and after careful consideration, I chose the latter. When I told Sunflower (pseudonym) about this matter, she readily agreed, and her support also gave me a lot of touch.

Sunflower lives in a single-parent household, her parents divorced when she was more than one year old, and her father was almost not involved in Sunflower's growth. Mom needs a job, and Sunflower lives with her grandmother most of the time. It is gratifying that Sunflower has very good grades, is a particularly disciplined and reading child, just not very talkative in an unfamiliar environment, somewhat introverted. I want to use this activity to let her introduce her learning experience in the live broadcast of nearly a thousand people, maybe let her get a little exercise. Sunflower said at the end of the introduction of the experience that she wished she could be the pride of her mother, and the praise and praise from her family on the screen had said it all, and she was already.

Sunflower's mother is a very gentle, easy-going, kind person, although her life has experienced some ups and downs, she always smiles in front of her daughter. Sunflower wanted to read, so she took her to the bookstore; sunflower did something wrong, she told her daughter that it didn't matter if she did something wrong, it was important to correct it; Sunflower did some handicrafts, and she did it with her. Teacher Shen of the County Family Education Guidance Center, who participated in the activity together, gave our class a high evaluation of this group of families, and it is not easy to do so. You see, there are always people around us who have worked harder than us, but there is no ambiguity about the education and responsibility of children.

When the event was over, I drove the sunflower mother and daughter home, and on the way, our hearts came closer. Because of today's event, Mother Sunflower also thanked me, and I said softly, "Because we are a family." ”

The reason why the pseudonym sunflower is used in the text is because the flower language of sunflowers is sunshine, vitality and positive energy. I hope that she can be like a sunflower, positive and optimistic about her life path.

Perhaps, we cannot choose our own origins, but we can always choose our own attitudes. Finally, I would like to quote a passage from the writer Liu Yu to all the children: "May you have good luck, if not, may you learn compassion in misfortune; may you be loved by many people, if not, may you learn to be tolerant in loneliness." ”