Village teachers' winter holiday memories| Wang Jian: Twice a month, I will use the village tone to collide

Editor's note: "The day is not everywhere, youth comes from just now; moss flowers are as small as rice, and peonies are also learned." "This is a true portrayal of the vast majority of small-scale rural schools. In the past 2021, the reporter went from Yinan to Yuncheng, and then from Zhuanhua to Yiyuan squatting, witnessing many educators with feelings taking root in the countryside, and they are working hard to make up for the gap with glimmer and help rural children grow better. The family sits idly and the lights are amiable, which is the ideal state for the Spring Festival reunion. In small-scale rural schools in many parts of Shandong, countless rural principals and teachers are rushing to the homes of students in remote rural areas that lead to the middle of the mountain, and they want to use their precious winter vacation time to go to their children's homes and enter their children's hearts. From now on, the Qilu Evening News Qilu One-Point "Youth Talk" column will successively launch the "Winter Holiday Memories of Rural Principals/Teachers", focusing on what rural teachers see, hear and feel during home visits, light up the dreams of rural children, and inject strength into rural revitalization.

The following is the winter holiday record of Wang Jian, a teacher at the First Junior High School in Andi Town, Yinan County:

Tuesday, February 8, 2022 Sunny

My name is Wang Jian, I am an English teacher at the First Junior High School in Andi Town, Yinan County, who graduated from university for 17 years, taught for 17 years, and worked as a class teacher for 17 years. Shorebank is my hometown, Shorebank First Junior High School is my alma mater, there are so many memories here, so I came back here after graduating from college. Because it is my hometown, I will collide with my parents in the village tone during my twice-monthly daily home visits to resonate with the growth of students.

Today is the day when I went to baobao student Yuxin's home to "be a guest". Because of the epidemic prevention and control, I also called in advance to make an appointment. Yuxin's family lives in Xingwangzhuang Village, Andi Town, Yinan County, which is a village bordering Mengyin County, and it takes about an hour to drive from where I live to her house. At 8:30 in the morning, I left and drove to Yuxin's home, as soon as I entered the house, Yuxin's parents greeted me, and after taking a seat, we bent our knees to talk and understand the children's learning situation during the winter vacation.

Due to the decline in Yuxin's grades, Yuxin's father said to me as soon as she came up: "This winter vacation Yuxin is not very good, relaxed about studying, and has more time to play with mobile phones", and her mother also said casually: "This holiday always sleeps late and gets up late, sometimes not getting up at nine o'clock." Hearing this, I smiled and called Yu xin to my side, asking her to take the homework of various subjects to me to see, she immediately rubbed and rubbed, bowed her head, did not speak for half a day, and finally she whispered: "Teacher, I did not finish, some of the homework can not be found." I also whispered, "It's all right, look for it and show me." ”

Seeing that the homework was not ideal, her parents and I sat around, looking for reasons and discussing ways to educate their children. Yuxin has a younger sister and a younger brother, there are many children in the family, the father spends most of his time working in the field, and the mother takes care of three children at home alone, sometimes she really can't care about educating the children, and there is no time to pay attention to the children's learning. I said: "For the education of students, it is necessary to rely on the joint efforts of schools and families, and only in this way can children be cultivated into excellent students in all aspects." ”

Finally, I called Yuxin to her side and told her to pay attention to the method of learning during the winter vacation, take time to review and consolidate the basic knowledge of the next semester, discuss with classmates in time when she does not understand, and call the teacher. What makes me happy is that in the face of my concern and understanding with her parents and me, Yuxin expressed her determination to study next semester: from now on, the homework assigned by the teacher will not be discounted to complete.

In the communication, I also saw the shining points on Yuxin's body: helping her parents to do housework, taking care of her younger brothers and sisters, and being a good helper for the family. At this moment, I feel that I am one step closer to her soul and see her beautiful virtue of respecting the old and loving the young.

Before leaving, Yuxin's father took my hand and said: "This semester, the child in the study and life thanks to your care and teaching, in the future, I will definitely accompany the child more, let her complete the homework assigned by the teacher on time, and achieve more excellent results." ”

This time, I found problems worth thinking about and solving, which also spurred me to continue to explore and accumulate educational methods. Be tolerant of children's mistakes, and every child deserves our guidance and care. Parents should also have a more comprehensive understanding of their children and take corresponding positive measures to educate their children. Only the joint efforts of parents and teachers will make children grow up healthy and happy.

Teachers and parents build a "new" home, build a harmonious home, and let children embrace a happy life. On the road of children's growth, let us work together and move towards the future together!