The old man said, sentence classic: borrow money to endure, pay back money to be fierce, thin legs are not soft, people are not short but know that there is a sword in their mouths, they do not know that the knife in their sleeves is not more than desire, fifty is not sentimental and sixty is not planted trees, seven

Old man's words, classic sentences:

Borrow money to endure, and repay money fiercely

Horses are not soft in their thin legs, and people are not short in their ambitions

But he knew that he had a sword in his mouth, and he did not know that he had a sword in his sleeve

Forty is not much desire, fifty is not sentimental

Sixty do not plant trees, seventy do not clothe

Eighty does not leave food, ninety does not stay sitting

The emperor loves the eldest son, and the people love the children

Money is not arrogant, no money is not bent

People who have accumulated good deeds for three years do not know, and they have heard about evil day by day

See through the human feelings and be frightened, and see through the world's fears

No one says behind anyone's back, and no one says who doesn't say behind their backs

Flies can't see blood, and stolen officials can't see money

Skinny camels are bigger than horses, and hairless phoenixes are not as good as chickens

Blessed people give birth to children in spring and autumn, and blessed people give birth to children in summer and winter

Although the phrase "do not listen to the old man's words, suffer losses in front of you" is a cliché, there is nothing more useful than the advice of the old ancestors.

On the first day of the Chinese New Year, relatives all went to pay respects to Grandma, uncles, aunts, cousins, cousins and other large families rarely got together, originally it was a happy thing, but I did not expect that in the end because of a word from my cousin, the whole family was not happy and dispersed.

After dinner, the fathers accompanied the grandmother to nag, our generation, men play cards, women pull home, talking, cousin asked the little cousin: "Juan'er, you borrowed me that 5,000 yuan last year, when do you plan to pay it back?" ”

Juan Mei was playing with her mobile phone, and her head did not raise her head back: "I have money, I will pay you back immediately." ”

My cousin smiled and said, "When exactly?" Your brother-in-law's business has been bad last year, the family expenses are supported by my own salary, I heard that you work in a nail salon, making more than 3,000 a month..."

Before the cousin finished speaking, Juan Mei stood up and said: "Sister, didn't I borrow you 5,000 yuan, as for the twist and turn?" I'm afraid I won't pay you back, stingy, I'll transfer money to you tomorrow. ”

The cousin was so frightened that her face was flushed, and she jumped out of bed and began to argue with her cousin, and the more the noise became, the more serious it was, alarming the adults in the back room, and even Grandma came out to fight.

The relatives watched the atmosphere and left one after another, and I stayed behind to accompany my grandmother.

I thought that the 86-year-old grandmother would definitely be sad, but I didn't expect that the older she was, the more open-minded she became, while summarizing that what had just happened was that Juan had done something wrong, while instructing me to talk to Juan's cousin tomorrow, asking her: "How did I forget the 8 words that my grandmother had been nagging to her since she was a child: 'Borrow money to endure, pay back the money to be cruel'?" ”

I admire my grandmother at this age, still so sensible, love my children and grandchildren, and also recall that from childhood to adulthood, my grandmother did not say in front of her grandchildren and grandchildren, "Borrow money to endure, pay back money to be cruel" This sentence.

In fact, it is not easy to borrow money between unfamiliar people, and it is even more difficult to be between relatives, because it is too hurt and angry, just like my cousin and cousin, how embarrassing is It.

Everyone has a lack of money, but when borrowing money, we must choose a good object, and if we can not borrow it, we will not borrow it, endure it, and perhaps the difficulties will pass. However, once borrowed, when repaying the money, we must be ruthless, and we must repay it when we say what time, and never delay it, so as not to bring trouble to the other party.

In the book "Old Man's Words", there are many sentences full of such reasons for handling things, some of which explain the truth of life, some of which point out the rules of handling things, and some of which teach us how to deal with people.

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Old man's words