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Marriage is not beautiful, nor is it suitable for everyone, talk more about love, and marry cautiously. In fact, many Chinese-style marriages are very tragic, and most women are just poor economic conditions or material life

author:I have lived in Shenzhen for more than ten years

Marriage is not beautiful, nor is it suitable for everyone, talk more about love, and marry cautiously. In fact, many Chinese-style marriages are very tragic, most women are just economic conditions are not good or material life can not meet their own needs, marry a man to improve their lives.

So what kind of man does not demand that the girl's own ability and family conditions?

1, he also has no money of the macho boy;

2, the second generation of the small rich who do not understand the world, but this kind of family will be a great resistance to the man's family. Anyway, these two kinds of people can meet and very much want to marry you, less and less.

And those so-called successful men with ability, there is a certain accumulation, rational, looking for a wife is to see the woman's own ability and the conditions of the mother's family, unless it is really beautiful to explode, but at present, the beauty to explode is a very small minority, most of them are only medium to high. They will all be asked to be independent, dependent on heavy-hearted or need men to bear too much, and will not be considered.

Successful men with ability do not lack women in their lives, but they are also very aware of the difference between finding a wife and falling in love, and they cannot blame men, marriage is a very realistic thing. This kind of example is seen a lot in life. Who doesn't want to marry a rich and handsome man? Who still hates the rich this year? The question is, how did this richness come about.

If it is the second generation of the rich, then the wealth basically has nothing to do with the wife, the owner of the money is your opposition - mother-in-law; if it is the rich generation, since he is richer than you, then his IQ and emotional intelligence are lower than your probability of zero, if it is not easy to make money from the people around you, don't easily move the mind of people who are a hundred times smarter than you, unless he voluntarily volunteers, it is counterproductive.

Also, why would he want you to pour oil and water? There are no eternal friends, no eternal enemies, and the only eternal thing is interest. To put it bluntly, friends, relatives and even husband and wife relationships, but each take what they need, if you can provide what I want, our relationship is naturally stable and harmonious, such as you can not provide, even if parents and children, it is not the same many children on the Internet spit "how do I stall such parents" to vent their grievances.

If a man's success doesn't have your contribution, why should he share it with you? The stability of the marriage, that is, you have what he wants, and he has what you want. There is nothing wrong with exchanging beauty, gentleness and wisdom for wealth, but these are all replaceable, only experience, irreplaceable. So if you want to share, the best way is to work together.

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