#Emotional Review Awards #Dating software acquaintance, meeting and being forcibly kissed
Q: The other party's occupation is the middle level of the company, I am an employee of the stable unit, he is three years older than me, I only graduated last year, and he has been working hard in society for about ten years.
The two of us met on the dating mini program, the first time we met was when I left work in the evening, he directly rushed to me and let me send a location.
The first time we met, probably because I wasn't vigilant enough, I accidentally took him by the hand.
The second time we met, it was also after dinner in the evening, and then he directly kissed me in the car.
I was also very angry at the time, and then pushed him away, but he then directly forced me to kiss me.
In fact, I have feelings for him myself, but I feel that it is developing too fast and I want to take it slowly.
I was angry when he was so close that he didn't ask for my opinion because we didn't have a definite definite relationship yet, but holding hands in his heart was tacitly accepting that I was his girlfriend.
Later, I left, and as a result, he directly lay at the door of my community that night and did not leave, and kept calling me by voice.
I saw that he really didn't go anymore and there was no way, so I went down and talked to him.
I remember I said I was afraid of him, and he was very sad, and then as soon as I went, he said he was afraid that I would run away.
I was a little anxious for him, and then I comforted and encouraged him, and then I let him go back.
At the third meal, he sent me home directly, and I verbally refused to let him send me into the house, and I kept stressing that it was good to send me to the community, but he kept following me into the house.
I didn't think much of it at the time, and then he walked around the house for a while, and I urged him to go without leaving, and then he didn't go and then he started kissing me.
I pushed and pushed, the strength was really not as great as his, and then I compromised, because I found that I also had feelings for him.
He obviously didn't respect me, that is, every time he came to me, our dating place was indoors, or it was just eating, and after eating, he would go to bed as he should, and when he was done, he would leave.
That day was like this again, and then I was in a bad mood and refused, he felt that he didn't say anything, and sent a message when he got home.
Cold Love Reply:
In reading the question, the boy said in the second meeting that he was afraid that the girl would run, and the girl was anxious for the other party, comforting and encouraging the other party here, and I couldn't help but think that this story was very interesting.
There is also a very interesting conversation in the chat history, such as the girl saying: "I hate men".
This kind of hate is better to hate that he does not have the ability to control this boy.
The above story is actually very simple, and its core revolves around the matter of going to bed.
What pains the girl is that she knows that she is only worth going to bed for the boy.
I don't know if this girl knows, dating software is this kind of thing is a needle in the sea, most people just want to play.
Friends and relatives introduced have want to come out to play, not to mention this kind of dating mini program?
So, in the case of not being able to play, really don't play dating software.
It's like a man planting an apple tree in the ocean and doing something in the wrong place, no matter how right it is, it's hard to get the right result.
Because planting trees should find a suitable soil to carefully water and fertilize, it is possible to get a good result.
Therefore, you may wish to think about this matter a little, after all, you have also comforted and encouraged each other.
As she herself said, "I also have a little feeling for this boy", but I didn't give respect when I met, then when the experience was not good and ended.
Stop cursing each other, don't hate others, hate yourself, and don't say things that look for the periphery.
Because this will only hurt others and hurt themselves, it does not seem to respect other women.
To choose a mate in life, we must find the right person in the right field.
If you don't want to go to bed for the purpose of getting out of bed, go find the boys who really talk about marriage.
Screening with a good start is more important than anything else, after all, the right thing to do in the right place.
Finally, I would like to add:
There are always some people in this world who like the sense of dramatic conflict, such as the above story: "The first time we met, we rushed directly to kiss her, and the third time we followed into the house."
This sense of drama is also addictive for some people.
But if you really want a man who respects himself, you must set the rules at the beginning, have your own rules, your own discipline.
If a person does something the first time they meet without their consent, there should be no next time.
Otherwise, the other party will break through the setting again and again.
Therefore, when the other party breaks the rules for the first time, it is necessary to resolutely stop it and tell the other party that if there is another time, there will never be a future.
Because many men don't learn how to respect a woman, they have to tell each other with actual settings.
