#我要上 Headline # Last night I had a long talk with my husband all night, and today the mood seems to be much better, and the person is much more relaxed. In fact, our marriage really has no major problems, but it lacks the necessary collusion, because the long-term non-collusion has forced the other party into a dead hutong. Because of this, I also went from being enthusiastic and cheerful to being anxious and pessimistic. In fact, the husband is a person who is not good at words, not good at expression, and we have different living environments and growth environments since childhood, different education levels, and then join him usually do not love to learn, the influence of the working environment, always feel incompatible with me, in front of me there is a deep sense of inferiority, a long time of non-collusion let him do not know how to express to me in some things, my husband always feels sorry for me over the years, I have suffered a lot of hardships and grievances, the economy is not very generous, eat too much suffering, so he wants to escape from facing me. My husband said: Every time I think about the life I lived before and after I got married, he turned a delicate princess into a peasant woman who can resist on her shoulders and carry her hands, and the reason why I am now angry, violent, and shrew is caused by him. In fact, for so many years, I did not feel bitter after suffering and suffering, I was bitter. Usually, no matter how Angry I am, I don't get a response from him, even if I hit him with something, he behaves very calmly, if he can argue with me, or coax me, we will not go to such a field.