They are all born of a mother, how can the difference be so big? I am a mother of two children, and Dabao had a second treasure when she was 5 years old. Since I was a child, my husband and I have felt that our children's childhood should be happy and play.

They are all born of a mother, how can the difference be so big?

I am a mother of two children, and Dabao had a second treasure when she was 5 years old.

Since childhood, my husband and I have felt that children's childhood should be happy and play, especially boys. So we didn't care much about the big treasure.

But since one time Dabao's teacher told me about Dabao's situation at school, I changed my mind.

I realized that Dabao needs to develop some good habits, just take the study habits first.

In the past, Dabao came back every day after dinner, played first, and then wrote homework. My husband and I didn't feel anything, I thought it was a day of study, and it was nothing after school.

But later found that this did not work, Dabao was tired of playing, did not have the energy to study, and the homework was also confused and written.

So, I changed my method and asked Dabao to come back every day to finish eating, write his homework first, and then play after writing.

After insisting on this for 3 days, I found that Dabao did not write his homework seriously because he wanted to go out early. So I thought about it for a long time and came up with a method.

It is to ask him to check his daily homework first, and then take it to me to check, if I check out the error, then not only will the problem be punished, but also the time to go out to play will be reduced by 15 minutes, and these will be written in black and white as a rule.

At the beginning, Dabao still did not write seriously about his studies, and there was a phenomenon of wrong questions, which I resolutely implemented in accordance with the regulations. After a few times like this, the chance of Dabao making mistakes was significantly reduced. After a month of persistence, a habit is formed.

Erbao is a girl, before going to preschool, I also let her play every day, before the summer vacation before going to school, I began to slowly instill the concept of learning in her.

At first, she was asked to read a book quietly next to her brother. Slowly, she began to learn to write her own name, and then let her write her name in her room.

After going to preschool, there was pinyin and math homework every day, so I asked for Erbao according to the way I dealt with my brother, and at first Erbao was still very cooperative, and after a few days, it would not work.

Erbao began to resent it, and as soon as I said it, I began to cry. Whether I was harsh or gentle, it couldn't work, she did one trick: crying. I'm an acute, and as soon as I see that I'm telling you that you're still crying, I get angry. But what to do, your own cub, you must hold back. It seems that Dabao's experience is not suitable for erbao.

So I found a lot of articles on how to educate children on the Internet and learned a lot of experience. Try to use it on the second treasure one by one.

There is really a way to do it, that is, to affirm, approve, and praise her. I found that she was happy every time she affirmed her, and her motivation to learn increased.

At this time, I suddenly thought that children like others to praise them, and I have not often praised Dabao, is this unfair to Dabao? Therefore, I used this set of praise on Dabao, and found that Dabao's enthusiasm for learning was also improved.

Now the two babies in the family are actually competing with each other, and they will compare the results of the monthly examination, and then come to our parents to show off, and they are very happy to be praised.

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