If you can't marry your daughter-in-law, your father will die, and if you marry a daughter-in-law, your father will be even more worried, and you will get two people and two mouths.
My distant relatives are two strong, married for more than a year, divorced, and became a single stick, the current single stick, not as good as the original single stick,
The two strong families are in the countryside, not poor, but not rich, that is to say, ordinary people, no buildings, no cars. He works as a car repairman outside. It was difficult to find a daughter-in-law, and I beat bare sticks until I was in my thirties.
A year ago, I was introduced to a divorced woman, with a five-year-old girl, for a while, the second strong felt suitable, with a girl is also OK, married, have another child, how good it is to have one more child. At that time, the bride price alone was 66,000 yuan, not counting marriage, buying things and the like, and getting married.
After getting married, the second strong still continued to work, working outside or doing car repairs, more than seven thousand yuan salary in January, each time the salary was paid, 7,000 yuan was all handed over to his daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law, at home with the child to do housework, pick up the daughter to kindergarten, do not dare to anything else, live also very happy.
After a few months, the second strong consulted with his daughter-in-law. We have a daughter, let's have another child of our own, and have another child.
His daughter-in-law said, "Her five-year-old daughter will not let her have children," and her daughter-in-law said, "If you don't wait for the child to be a senior, the child goes to school, and she goes to the first and second grades, she can take care of herself, so let's ask for it again."
The second strong said: "Wait until the children go to school, we are all more than forty, and then we want children, can we still go to school?" The daughter-in-law said, "I can't hurt my daughter just to have this child." Unwilling to be born, from wherever I am, I am often angry about this matter.
The second strong feels that it is not interesting to live, and he has worked hard to earn money to raise children for others. Often for a little thing, the two quarrel, make trouble. Finally divorced years ago.
After this year, his mother cried and cried as soon as she said it, and everyone was empty of money.
The divorce of the woman is still easy to find, and the small two strong are more difficult to find.
I say this, there may be a lot of people spraying: single men, it is best not to find a second-married woman, especially a woman with children.