"Look at the scenery of one person and enjoy the joy of the world."
After walking through the time of youth and greenery, walking through the noisy, noisy crowds, you will find that as you grow older, loneliness has another interpretation, that is, solitude.
And solitude is growth, is the joy that belongs to a person, and is a fresh and elegant pleasure.
In the book "Loneliness is a Person's Joy", the prose master Lin Qingxuan uses warm healing brushstrokes to let us put aside the impetuousness and worry in our daily lives, to find a pleasure, and to harvest a piece of inner peace and tranquility in ordinary and ordinary days.
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"The joy of being an ordinary person is to find some wise fish in ordinary life every day, and to catch some beautiful fish on ordinary days all the time."
When the author Lin Qingxuan was in the fifth grade, his father, who worked in the field, used a pot to bring back a pot of meat soup to his family.
After a bumpy ride, only half a pot of meat soup remained, which made the whole family especially cherish this hard-won delicacy, and they slowly tasted it one bite at a time.
The emotions of solemnity, joy, and anticipation spread in the heart, so that more than thirty years later, I would never encounter the delicious taste of the time again.
I remember when I was a child, one year it was almost New Year's, and suddenly a box of pears appeared at home.
Hungry for our sisters and brothers, we circled around this box of pears several times, (because of the difficulties at home, my parents rarely bought us fruit) but were told that it was temporarily deposited in our house by others.
Thirty nights later, My parents suddenly announced that this box of pears had been bought by My Father with the remaining money.
Surprises, surprises, satisfaction...
I only know that the pears of that year were particularly delicious, and the Spring Festival of that year was particularly happy.
As the days pass slowly, the taste of memory will be deeply engraved in the mind with the person who loves you.
As the book says, "The meat soup may be cold, the love and wishes in life will always be hot; the meat soup may overflow in turmoil, and the cherished true feelings and honey in life will never pass away." ”
02
We often expect the perfect ending in our lives, but we forget the importance of the process.
The reality is that "life has no end, and each ending is just the beginning of a new process." ”
There is a story in the book:
Once upon a time, there was an impatient king. One day the queen gave birth to a little princess, but the little princess kept crying.
So the king summoned the country's famous doctors and wanted the little princess to grow up quickly.
Just when everyone was helpless, one of the famous doctors said that there was a famous medicine in the far east, and as long as the little princess ate it, she would grow up immediately, but the road was far away and it would take twelve years to get there.
The king said happily that as long as the little princess could grow up immediately, twelve years would not be spared.
So, the famous doctor took the princess away.
Twelve years later, when the famous doctor brought the princess back, the princess had grown into a big girl, the king was very happy, the country announced that the name of the famous doctor was not worthy of the name, and the princess grew up after eating the elixir.
This story tells us that there is no elixir in the world that can make us go directly to the end, and the growth of life requires a process.
In the process, there may be sorrow and tears, and there may be joy and emotion, but facing every moment with a non-hurried mentality is the best panacea in life.
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Life is a hard, a tired, nothing can be easily obtained, walking in the world, you must have a grateful heart.
Lin Qingxuan went to Pinglin Township and listened to an old farmer talk about the hardships of picking tea, he said:
One day, when I came back from picking tea, I immediately fried the tea, added a bowl of rice to eat at dinner, took a bite, and fell asleep.
The rice bowl fell to the ground and broke without knowing, people lay on top of the rice grains, and dreamed of tea fried and burned every once in a while.
When I woke up, I found that I still had a mouthful of rice in my mouth, and when I chewed it, I found that the taste was not right, and it turned out that the rice was fermented in the mouth, with the aroma of rice wine. ”
Usually, the refreshing tea that we drink with a pure and beautiful taste is actually obtained by tea farmers so hard.
This paragraph shocks each of us, picking tea can make a person busy like this!
Tea, condensed with the essence of nature, requires tea farmers to have rich experience and technology, as well as hard work to obtain.
So whether it's drinking tea or we're enjoying something else, we should all have a grateful and cherished heart to be able to afford so much that it's not easy.
Learn to live with loneliness and enjoy it.
In the ordinary life, find something beautiful and find a feeling of happiness.
When you travel through the corridor of years, looking back on the beauty of life, even if it is a bland life, it will be full of infinite fun.
