When you go to your girlfriend's house in the New Year, do the other parents have to give you money? My parents gave my girlfriend 8,000 red envelopes, but her parents did not give it to me! The girlfriend has been talking for about a year, and the parents of both sides have been right

When you go to your girlfriend's house in the New Year, do the other parents have to give you money? My parents gave my girlfriend 8,000 red envelopes, but her parents did not give it to me!

Girlfriend talked for about a year, both parents have officially met, basically is to talk about the degree of marriage, years ago we made an appointment, during the Spring Festival to visit each other's parents, girlfriend home is not in the city, thinking that the weather is not very good during the New Year, come and go is also troublesome, just Chinese New Year's Eve came to my home, my parents gave more than 8,000 red envelopes, which is considered to be pressure money. Years later, I went to my girlfriend's house and brought tobacco, alcohol and fruits, and the other parents did not give me money. This makes me very depressed, let's not talk about the size of the red packet, this is the number of etiquette problems, or does the man go to the woman's home without giving the money to press the age? Is this around you?

@ Duff Observation Your parents give 8000, the other party is less than 10,000 to you, if you don't know the gifts and exchanges of unilateral payment will be very tired! Usually on the basis of the original collection to add a little more to return, my friends around me are like this, I really haven't heard that there are only in and out, will there be other hidden feelings? There is also a possibility that the girl did not tell her parents that the man's parents gave more than 8,000 red envelopes. Some girls just don't understand this!

To tell you the truth, this is quite unpleasant, but since you have already talked about marriage and marriage, there may be more such things in the future, you have to ask yourself, can you not get over it in your heart? If you can't go over, you will wait, otherwise the small contradictions will not be solved in the future, and you will have to divorce again over time. First of all, go through this level yourself, and then find a chance to ask your girlfriend in the right way.