Gu Ailing's mother turned love into a driving force for the success of her daughter, and our parents should reflect.
At the Winter Olympics, a blonde girl, speaking fluently, Chinese, won the gold medal in the freestyle ski jump at the Winter Olympics, creating history and winning the third gold in China!
Her name is Gu Ailing, a mixed-race Child of Chinese and American descent, but she gave up her American citizenship and joined the Chinese nationality, and people are enthusiastic about her finally returning home, she is a Chinese daughter.
Gu Ailing's family is superior, but her parents did not choose to let her soak in the honeypot, but cultivated various interests and hobbies for her from an early age.
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Gu Ailing said that when she was a child, she had to bring three clothes with her, play football to dance ballet, dance ballet after ballet, and her interests and hobbies were too many, as well as equestrianism, basketball and so on.
She is an only child, but her parents have never been spoiled, let alone choose comfort for their daughter, let's take a look at her growth trajectory:
He practiced skiing at the age of 3, learned freestyle skiing at the age of 8 and joined a professional ski team, began to compete in ski competitions the following year, and won the National Junior Ski Championship at the age of 9.
This is difficult for some of our Chinese parents today to do such strict and cruel requirements, their children will complain for half a day when they get up early in school, and when they go home to write homework for a long time, they will jump and insult the teacher.
The first thing to overcome in ski training is the cold climate, which can withstand the struggle, and requires perseverance.
Gu Ailing started his career as a skier in this way, starting to compete in the senior group at the age of 13, and at the age of 14, he has won more than 50 championships, including 9 national championships.
And her interests and hobbies are very extensive, in addition to talent, Gu Ailing has cultivated a variety of interests and hobbies since childhood.
The snowboards and ski suits for this competition were designed by herself. During the interview, she showed the audience the design of her "Chinese dragon" element, and behind the snowboard, there is also written "Dragon among Men".
And taking off her ski clothes, she turned gorgeously and became a fashion model under the magnesium lamp, wearing a front guard dress and pedaling "hating the sky". Isn't Gu Ailing the way we Chinese try our best to cultivate our daughter?
02 Parents accompany and strive to forge ahead
Mama Gu Yan studied in the Department of Chemistry at Peking University, as well as the Stanford University Master of Chemistry and the Stanford MBA.
In his spare time, he obtained a ski instructor certificate and worked part-time as a ski instructor. Gu Ailing's father is a high-achieving student who graduated from Harvard University in the United States.
In 2020, Gu Ailing successfully obtained an acceptance letter from Stanford University in the United States, achieving the goal he set at the age of 6. The reporter asked her how she had raised such a good daughter.
She thought hard and replied: When Ailing first went to school, the teacher said: Don't correct the child's typos, don't hit the child's creativity; praise their intelligence less, praise their efforts more. I did just that.
Gu Ailing himself was very competitive, graduating from high school a year early with an all-A grade, which had never been seen in the history of the school.
The SAT test with a score of 1600 was 1580, and this score was obtained by her squeezing time.
Gu Ailing succeeded, but also paid hard sweat and efforts. Every success involves countless failures and injuries.
Gu Ailing's mother is not not praising the child, people praise not how smart the child is, but praise the child's efforts, focusing on discovering the child's creativity.
Gu Yan is undoubtedly a successful mother, she has not delayed her career, but also did not use this as an excuse to relax the companionship and cultivation of her daughter, every year during the holidays she will take her daughter back to China to travel, understand Chinese history and culture, cultivate her daughter's patriotic complex, and her Chinese is also a good one.
03 Burden Reduction Education Overcorrection
Seeing this, I don't know what we should say about our current educational status and parenting attitudes.
We don't even dare to make our grades public, our exams have been reduced or cancelled, we don't dare to criticize the punishment, we don't dare to criticize the students fiercely, and we don't even want to hit the wrong red cross on the homework book.
Writing a review also hard to piece together the advantages of students, not allowed to directly point out the shortcomings, engaged in teachers laugh at the wrong, sometimes look at their own hollow minds to the advantages of the students to cry and laugh.
Some parents have proposed to cancel the late study. Sometimes we don't understand what kind of purpose and motivation these people are, is it to cultivate our next generation into a brother and a girl?
Looking at Gu Ailing's growth trajectory, this may also be a model for student growth education in the big environment, and such education will naturally cultivate excellent talents.
Doesn't Gu Ailing's mother feel sorry for her daughter? There is certainly no gap with all parents in the world, but people turn their love for their daughters into a driving force for their daughters to succeed, which some parents in our country simply cannot do.
Education is called by some highly educated parents, they do not take the responsibility of educating their children as their responsibility, but think that the teachers are not good enough, Gu Ailing's success is from her parents with high education and correct education methods.
Nowadays, under the guise of "reducing the burden", it is blindly emphasized that children's happy childhood, playing well is the first, relaxation is responsibility, and happiness is the goal.
Children's make-up classes are also recorded in the credit report, teachers are detained for making up classes, and it is actually wrong to love learning, so what is the responsibility of our next generation? What about the mission? Where to start?
I am a good year, pay attention to me to discuss education issues together! #教育听我说 #
