Text/Dasu
The pressure of people in the city is not small, many of them put their minds on work, for families and children, it is inevitable that there will be places that cannot be taken into account, always thinking that it is good to make money for children.
This is also the way many Chinese parents think, always feeling that they are for the sake of their children's future.
However, the way children think is different from adults, and whether they have money or not is not the most important, but also hope that their parents can accompany her and grow up with her.
In the process of communication with children, the patience of many parents is not enough, and sometimes children do the wrong things, such as indulging in games, at this time, parents' education is very important.
However, most parents are the same way of dealing with it, and the education method of scolding or dropping things at every turn will also make children rebel, which is often counterproductive.
The more children do not let the child do, the more the child will do it to the end, and even take the parent's money to recharge, there is a child in Hangzhou, Zhejiang Province, retaliatory recharge, more than 1 month to charge more than 100,000.
Ms. Yu of Hangzhou, Zhejiang, has two daughters in the family, the eldest daughter has been very well-behaved since she was a child, and now that she has gone to college, her younger children have made her very upset, and her learning is also general.
Last year, she was obsessed with playing mobile games, when the family also bought her a tablet and a mobile phone, and after seeing her daughter addicted to games and not learning, the mother and daughter quarreled many times.
Once, after getting angry, she dropped the tablet and mobile phone, and then her daughter became quite obedient, and she never played games much anymore, occasionally playing with her mobile phone.
However, obedience is also the superficial situation, and in fact, it will still secretly play games.
Every time she took her mobile phone to play, her daughter frantically recharged, from December to January, in just over a month, the game cost up to more than 100,000 yuan.
A total of two games were played, one directly recharged more than 60,000 yuan, one was recharged more than 2,000 yuan, and also purchased account skins on a multi-platform, which cost more than 40,000 yuan.
She found the media to expose that there are 2 appeals, one is to hope to return the money, and the other is to hope to ease the relationship with her daughter and persuade her daughter to put more thoughts on learning.
However, her daughter Xiaoyu also has her own views, the school's classmates will also recharge, she recharged is not the most, last year when playing, she recharged more than 5,000 yuan, or use her pressure money and pocket money.
I didn't think that the mother would be so angry, her tablet was broken, the relationship between mother and daughter became bad, and the recharge this time was also a little retaliatory, not purely wanting to play to recharge.
In addition, Xiaoyu also has a lot of dissatisfaction with her parents, mainly because she is not accompanied, she is busy going to work on weekdays, and she can only be a boarder when she goes to school.
And other students to study are picked up by their parents, Xiaoyu hopes that her parents can care more about her, and have more time to accompany her on weekdays, rather than giving money to think that it is good for her.
In this regard, Ms. Yu also admitted that she was busy with work, and the care for her daughter was a little less, and promised that she would take more time to accompany her in the future, hoping that her daughter would not blame her too much.
At present, the platform is already dealing with refunds.
There is a saying that every family has a difficult scripture.
Poor economy has time to accompany the child's family, parents do not necessarily get along well with the child, sometimes in order to buy toys and so on, the child is easy to quarrel with the parents.
Families with strong economic conditions, children want to buy what they want, and they may not be happy, for example, like the light rain in the text, they only hope that parents can compensate more.
It mainly depends on how parents do it and how to get along with their children.
Some parents who know how to get along with their children, whether the family has money or no money, the children will be very happy, and they do not know how to communicate, and no matter how rich they are, they are not good with their children.
Dasu had something to say
How to choose in terms of work and family, this is also a dilemma, there is such a ridiculous sentence on the Internet, I can't hold you when I move bricks, and I can't move bricks when I hold you.
Although it is a description of love, but it is also similar to the situation in the text, if you put your mind on the child, the parents will earn less money, worried about not giving the child a future.
What do you think about this?