Recently, in Shanxi County, there was a family of children who went home to visit the elderly, and when eating, because there were too many people and the position was not enough to sit, the old father silently held a bowl in the corner to eat.
This matter has caused a lot of hot discussion among netizens on the Internet, but the children of this family responded that the old father did not dare to eat for his children, and he gave too much, and felt particularly moved.
To tell the truth, when I saw this child respond in this way, I felt that he was not moved, but did not understand things, if I was present at the time, no matter how the old father pushed away, I would "force" him to come to the table, as a junior I would take the initiative to get off the table.
What makes us feel even more chilled is that no one in such a large family has taken the initiative to give up his seat for this old father, and everyone still feels that it is natural for them to sit.
Some people say that some old people will not listen no matter how much they persuade them, and they are willing not to sit at the table for the sake of their children, and this cannot be blamed on their children
I feel that this is ignorance, what is not listening to advice, this is just a good excuse for children to shirk their responsibilities, does the old father not like to sit at the table in the first place? It's just that the children are used to the old man not sitting at the table at the beginning, so the old man can only get used to it.
Therefore, I think that the behavior of the elderly not sitting at the table is caused by the children's ignorance, and there is no other reason.
