When you were young, you may have heard such words:
Source: Science Family Parenting Original
To this end, he also deliberately ran to the side of the garbage can to look over to see if there were any "brothers and sisters" of his own, and the result was to usher in a "violent beating"!
Because of my parents' "lies", I did not suffer less from flesh and skin
Then next, follow the black technology of the editor, shuttle back to the past, and review the "lies" that your parents once told!
1
Can I grow watermelon in my stomach?
The longest road traveled is the routine of parents! They use subtle "lies" to tell us common sense of life.
Such lies are funny now, but at the time we always took them as truth!
So, what life knowledge did your parents teach you when you were a child?
2
I wet the bed because of playing with fire?
In fact, quitting diapers is more reliable than anything!
However, if the baby is over 5 years old, wets the bed at least twice a week, and lasts for more than 3 months, be vigilant about whether it is [enuresis]!
So, have you ever been beaten for bedwetting?
3
Mom, are you sure this is a "reward"?
This may be a reward for some babies, but some of them must be "torture"!
However, for a baby who has not yet attended kindergarten, you can try this method to alleviate his anxiety before entering the kindergarten.
So, have you ever received a similar "reward"?
4
Can't afford to raise me, give me to relatives?
Just like the sentence "You picked it up from the trash can", you think it's just a joke, but in Wa's heart, this is undoubtedly telling them: "Mom and Dad don't want you, and you are not my dearest person!" ”
The child will take it seriously, really afraid of not going home,
Some children may forget for a long time, but some of them will feel less secure, and when they have conflicts with their parents, they will always unconsciously think of "I am not biological, they do not love me!" ”
Therefore, dear parents, relatives and friends, although most of the lies are white, you cannot abuse the right to lie and joke at will!
5
"Disappear out of thin air" of old money?
We agreed that Mom and Dad had secretly "spent" our money! In the name of helping us keep it, in fact, it has long been gone!
But, think about it:
Those toys, stationery, snacks that I usually eat, school fees... Every penny we "squander" has to be advanced from the small treasury (pressing the old money), in fact, it has long been overspent!
The money we have saved has been "returned" to us before we grow up.
So, how do you keep your money?
With the passage of time, slowly we grew up, even if our parents knew that we were not good, but their lies were never broken!
6
I don't like chicken thighs!
When you ask why you don't like to eat, parents usually say, "Don't like to eat."
Over and over again, we believe it,
However, it is not that they do not like to eat, but they want to leave the best for us!
That's all.
So, you are the most precious treasure of your parents, people in other places, promise me, take care of yourself, okay?
7
When I grow up, I love to care more!
When you graduate, don't worry about it!
When you get married, don't worry about it!
If you have children, don't worry about it!
It's as if we've never let our parents worry...
But even such endless nagging, that is happiness!
So, what nagging do you miss most about your parents?
8
Body, I know it myself!
Parents are always "feeling good about themselves" and buying things is mandatory because they never take the initiative to ask us for it.
And when we were young, how much did we ask for? When you don't buy it, roll around on the ground.
So, don't forget to arrange a medical examination for your parents on a regular basis, and you have to force them to go!
9
It's okay, everything is fine at home!
Because of you, everything will be fine in the family!
Parents always like to be "two-faced people", it doesn't matter on the surface, but in their hearts they are very worried!
The most important thing they wanted to hear was, "Mommy and Daddy, I'm back!" ”
There is a kind of thought, which is to think and not see.
So, how long have you not been home? Don't call right away!
Have you noticed a change in parents?
They went from "command" to "inquiry.".
From "unscrupulous" to "cautious".
The "lies" that we were told when we were young may be good or bad, please forgive them, who is not a first-time parent?
But the "lie" after growing up is that you don't want to become a burden to you! They are too sensible to say that they are lonely, do not mention their thoughts, and unconditionally overdraft their love!
"Rest assured, we have grown up as first-time parents!"
Remember to go home and check it out, even if it's just a phone call...
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