Bao Mom tearfully said to herself: My son suffered from tics, and I didn't even notice it! He also scolded him for being bad

When I saw such a message in the fan base, I was shocked!

Before she could return to Her Senses, the mother had already begun to pour out her experience:

I accidentally found that my baby had a lot of "bad problems".

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"Good don't learn, net learn bad!"

"What's going on with the eyes! Haven't you been watching the tablet for a long time again?! ”

......

In the face of these stinky problems of his, I did not shout at him less.

The handsome boy in front of the person behaves so "strangely", the parents must be in a hurry!

At that time, I also thought: Could it be tics? But most of these behaviors will get better in a few days, and I don't care too much.

After another half a month, these problems not only did not change, the limbs twitched more obviously, and began to frequently "sting" to clear the throat!

I immediately realized the seriousness of the matter and couldn't put it off any longer!

Hurriedly went to the hospital, did an EEG, drew blood...

When Baby was diagnosed with tics, my brain was blind...

Why did this happen to me...

The doctor said to me, "You must not put too much pressure on your child."

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"If you have involuntary behaviors such as tics, don't yell at your child, it's not easy to be good!"

"Most of the parents I have met are impatient and demand their babies with high standards."

A word to wake up the dreamer, it turns out that this is still my "pot"!

I didn't go to bed until after 4 a.m. that night, and I kept looking up information on the Internet.

Difficult to recover, easy to relapse, affect schooling, affect mental health...

I also fantasize about having a "miracle drug"...

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Ever since my baby suffered from tics, our whole family has been under tremendous mental stress.

In particular, my baby's temper has become very grumpy: as long as she is angry, she will stomp her feet and shake her hands vigorously.

Once I got angry while walking down the street, I lost control of my emotions, yelled, stomped my feet, and bit myself!

It's not good.

In fact, the reasons why he is angry are simple: it is too hot, you are tired of walking, your response is slow, and so on.

With such an irritable baby, who is not stressed?

This year, the child's tic disorder sometimes lessens during the treatment of the medicine, and once the drug is stopped, it returns to the same old way.

There was no way, because I only had this path to go.

The symptoms are accumulated over time, and I don't have the luxury of getting better all at once, I can only accompany him slowly and give him more patience and love!

Sharing it today just doesn't want more parents to experience it again! After all, it is the first time to be a parent, and I want to go smoothly and smoothly.

On the way to raising children, the hearts of parents are also gradually becoming stronger!

The public account of the University of Science and Technology also has many messages, all of which are to inquire about tics:

Maybe the child has a small "wrong" and leans on it.

So, I summarized these characteristics, and everyone can judge whether the baby has a tic tendency at home:

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If the time lasts for more than 2 months and the symptoms are getting more and more serious, it is likely to be tics, be sure to take the baby to the hospital for further examination!

I have met several parents of children with tics before, and they have told me: Every time hope turns into disappointment and then becomes despair, there are many moments when I want to be with my children for a hundred...

Hey, home is a haven, parents are the backers of their children, we must not collapse! Also don't transfer your anxiety to your child.

In addition to medication, how can we help children with tic disorder in their daily lives?

1, ignore the symptoms! Ignore the symptoms! Ignore the symptoms!

No blame, no imitation, no ridicule! Try to create a calm, confident living environment for them.

In addition to not criticizing and accusing children, family members should also be harmonious with each other, and families that often quarrel are also not conducive to children's mental health.

The more you blame, the more nervous he is, and then blame himself, the more frequently you move involuntarily, and the child will gradually become timid and inferior.

When the child has tics, parents should hold back, "pretend not to see" to avoid criticism or reminders in turn become a reinforcer of the tic behavior.

In fact, you can think like this: when the child's life is controlled by the parents, it is like two people driving a car at the same time: the child wants to stride forward, you want to pull the handbrake, can there be no problem?

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Also remember to communicate with the teacher to understand which tics are frequent at school, how classmates react, and so on.

Please understand that the child's symptoms are not intentional, but sick, please do not laugh at imitating the child.

Avoid and reduce the adverse effects of twitching on children's self-esteem, self-confidence, peer interactions, etc.

2. Increase the amount of exercise and conduct behavioral intervention training if necessary

Reduce time playing with electronics or being alone.

Participating in more physical activities can help children shift their attention and get rid of their closed state. It lifts your spirits and really relaxes.

In addition to physical activities, picnicking with children, climbing mountains, and doing some simple housework at home also have a positive effect.

For tic disorders, the current intervention methods are: habit reversal training and integrated behavioral intervention therapy.

◆ Habitual reversal training requires children to have sufficient understanding and cooperation ability. Muscle groups that can understand, become aware of, and discern the symptoms of tics, perceive before the tics occur, and can autonomously fight against the twitching muscles to complete the confrontation response.

Simply put, it is to train the child to control it autonomously without twitching.

◆ In addition to consciousness training and confrontational response training, comprehensive behavioral intervention therapy also includes relaxation training, how to deal with severely affected tic behavior or environmental factors, and psycho-educational intervention.

These can be comprehensively evaluated with the doctor after diagnosis and the specific intervention content can be formulated.

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If you can post a good sticker, what else do you want a doctor to do?! Don't bother with money anymore, care more about the baby is better than anything!

As for why there are so many praises, I don't click broken, everyone understands!

If you really need brain current stimulation equipment treatment, you should also carry out under the recommendation of a doctor, and you should not use the instrument casually.

We can't afford the consequences!

Tics are not bad habits, in addition to considering medication, it also requires help and intervention from families, schools and children themselves!